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You were hurt and offended that he didn't take the bait you threw out to try to get him to beg for you back... His actions were mature and showed he cares about his gf while yours were extremely...

This guy has never given you what you needed and I think you need to take a hard look at why you would want him back. He did not make the time for you nor show he ever cared in the relationship. You...

I wouldn't believe a word he says.

Every time you've caught him in a lie, he's given up a small amount of information out of necessity and it's obviously like only 1% of the whole story. I can't...

Is she the one who broke up with you? If so, I'm sorry to say it but it looks like she's not exactly regretting her decision. She probably was happy to catch up but isn't responding because she...

Okay I stand corrected on my comment that you handled things "fine" ha. You made a big mistake there, but it's a mistake a lot of people have made (going back to an ex that's done them wrong) and...

I think you handled things fine. She's a skank, plain and simple. You're better off without her, even though it's hard to take the blow to your ego and deal with the pain of being cheated on and...

Yay! That's great. Very happy for you, Laurie, hope it all works out!

I didn't mean to imply you are a jerk! Maybe my post sounded harsh but was just trying to make a point. I just think you are overanalyzing things when it seems pretty clear you aren't super into her...

Talk to her!! You did a bad thing sleeping with a girl she hates but it's possible that this could be salvageable. We can't tell you if she wants to date you based on the info, but in my opinion,...

Tough one. Like wakeup said, it could be a number of things and now your imagination is running wild with distrust. Who knows, maybe she has a celeb crush and is checking her compatibility with...

End it. The way you talk about her shows that you are not into her enough. Either you have some issues to work out on your own and should be single for a while and maybe try therapy (your post comes...

Agree that you need to go for it. Things have a tendency to fizzle out if you keep the conversation online for too long. I know I used to get annoyed chatting with guys on Okcupid too much, I just...

Agree to disagree. I think we all agree that this needed to end so I’m glad that happened.

But I have one last thing I have to say (sorry for digging up a somewhat old thread in which the OP has...

I don't know if it's clear that he's a player, although it's certainly clear he didn't want a relationship. He wanted something casual and she didn't. In the past I've had this experience and I tell...

I think not responding to his texts was childish, to be honest. Yes, you should cut him out of your life, but he was pretty upfront about not wanting to seriously date you, and were the one that...

Cheating, plain and simple. Sorry to say but there are a million red flags in your post and I came to that conclusion by the 5th paragraph.

Also cowardly guys always use the excuse of being...

Sounds to me like she only likes the attention. If she really wanted to go out w you she wouldn't be making excuses.

Yes, she likes you. Go for it!

The way to regain control is to remember that you don't need her, you aren't desperate for her. Once you remember that, you will stop thinking constantly about winning her over, begging her for her...

Wow. Please end things with your current girlfriend so you can save her a life of misery with you. You think she will never forgive you, but it's likely she'll thank you eventually. You're a creepy...

Don't respond to her if you aren't interested. Or better yet, thank her for the message but just tell her you aren't interested. Even one word sentences are going to lead her on more than just ending...

Yes, mention it to him! Just smile and say "So what do you want to do for Valentine's day?" Some people don't take the holiday as seriously as others so if it's important to you, mention it.

You're being creepy! Of course her friends are going to look at you and whisper when you are around because she probably told them about how weird you had been acting and how you wouldn't take no for...

It's a reality of life, unfortunately, and stressing yourself out over WHY she betrayed you and disrespected you doesn't really help. I think the most important thing is that you got a bad vibe, you...

Wakeup - AMEN. Great post. Zeni - read and reread that post over and over until it sinks in.