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I would like to apologise to all...

I think I may have explained it all very poorly....

Someone that uses you does not cry over the phone when your splitting up - it was distance that killed...

It really is nothing like that..... thanks for the totally rubbish advice, she got in touch and I do still care therefore.... YOUR ANSWER: Move on etc... *claps*

Hey Everybody, I could really do with some great advice on what to do.... just a 'yes or 'no' will do in reply to my question and so I do not want to bore you with all the details the past and the...

There is one thing I know about my ex.... she hated the thought of losing me from her life forever- one week before we split she said she would never want to lose me.

I played it all wrong when...

Yes, and I can move... I have a well paid job etc + good prospects.

Security is something she seeks in a partner more so than others, both me and her new partner have it.

Well.... I really am not sure now after hearing that. I mean I know she really likes the new guy so it would probably be a waste of time... atm as it is the honeymoon stage of her rebound.
However,...

I have identified that.... I will move so that it is no longer a problem if we did start again.

Apparently... 'No Contact' is the best way to get someone back... they miss you more the less they hear from you so if it was a real love relationship they eventually get back in touch or come back....

I didn't know he would be there or that he would be so insecure and threatened by me.... that isn't really fair plus I want her in my life - if I can't have her back then I can accept friends as long...

I really want my ex girlfriend back... but she is now involved in a rebound relationship and they clearly like each other a lot - what can I do??

Here is the history....

1. After a bad patch me...

Staying in contact and being friends is good, never ask her back out though... unless you feel she is wanting you to try and talk her round. Instead try to remind her of what she liked about you and...

I will partially move to her, half a week there and half here. She created pressure by always insisting on a babysitter when it wasn't all necessary and I applied too much pressure to see her (my...

I know but sometimes people just have something between them... she knows we do as well - even as friends whenever we talk on the phone it is there!

Not had it with someone else before... really...

I am being respectful.... I have left her be... I have dates lined up etc... SHE IS THE ONE CONTACTING ME!

It puts me in a position because if I don't reply it is rude etc... or damages a future...

Spot on! You don't know what you have until its gone.

My first love and me split... I cut her out my life... the next spring I received love letters which I ignored (had moved on) and 10 years on...

It's easier said than done... if you have happy experiences with that person and a past then its hard etc - nobody is all good or all bad.

I'm not talking to her.. she is now coming to me - I am...

I acted in a nice way but firm manner... I certainly didn't wimp out and said that It was good she had found someone local!

The conversation didn't go on too long either and I was the one that...

Again similar to my own situation... my ex is wanting me there as the backup guy! I am out of that position now after our conversation the other day (see my recent post) I think xxazzurexx pointed...

My Ex got back in touch with me last week.... just two weeks after we last spoke and just two weeks after she had decided to enter into a new relationship!

This new relationship seems to be based...

The problem is by her keeping in contact and in touch she is stopping you from moving on 100% yourself - prolonging it! Just keep ignoring her until she gets the message.... I really am now thinking...

Just reading this post... it has sooo many similarities with my own situation. My ex just got back in touch... less than two weeks after she confirmed her feelings for someone else and cancelled a...

Thanks xxazurex - she needs to get this guy out of her system.

I think she actually liked us both equally tbh, she was sooo happy and very loved up with me very quickly at the start and I know she...

No she met him the once... and then met me a few days later and then we met again the very next day - that isn't a relationship rebound that is making a choice between two guy's that she met and...

Your advice on this would be really appreciated....

I split with my Ex Girlfriend 3 weeks ago and entered into a period of no contact... after two week's I called her on the phone about items of...

Hey everyone...

I split with my ex girlfriend around a week ago and well it is hurting because I know just how great a match we were for each other :( Although it takes two and there are faults...