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How come? I treated him well and I had a lot going for me. How do you explain a guy who spends a lot of time doing fun things with me and meets my family, but after 14 moths when I bring up that he...

Would he respect me more if I said "it's not just my fault, because the very first time I brought up marriage you tried to sneak around with another girl behind my back"?

I tried to ask him if his mom had her own ideas about whom he should marry and that's why he didn't want me to meet or talk to her after 2 years. His response was to yell that I'm an ignorant...

I belong in a psych ward because I didn't like his treatment of me or doubted he was serious about marrying me?

How is it fair that right from our early conversations about marriage or future he would say "I'm warning you not to keep bringing it up?" It just felt like a dictatorshup

Which other behaviors are you referring to- being cold and unloving and telling me work is his priority not me? I feel like he just did those things to withdraw since he's scared of commitment and...

Well he just flirted and snuck with that girl because he felt scared that I wanted to discuss the future after 14 months and maybe felt I was going to break up w him so he had to have options

I'm torn bc he claims I ruined the relationship by "pressuring about marriage." But the very first time I brought up the topic (14 months in), he immediately tried to sneak out with another girl to a...

What was stupid of me? :(

So I chalked most of it up to him just being a strong, independent man. Who had a terrible childhood (all he'd ever tell me was "when you've seen the things I've seen at a young age, you learn fast...

Just bc of flirting with one girl? Or bc he "warned" me I couldn't keep bringing up marriage or ever expecting it to be a discussion or else he'd dump me?

What should I have done to demand respect from him?

How did I make it into a mess?

Just because he flirted with like one other girl behind my back for a month or so, and asked her for pics one time, doesn't mean he didn't value me. And him saying "I warned you that if you keep...

But the relationship was great and he was always nice to me until the first time (14 months in) I brought up him not saying "I love you" back and that I wasn't sure if we wanted the same things in...

So it's not that I ruined things bc I kept bringing up marriage and didn't trust him (which is what he claims), but rather that he was lying and had never wanted to marry me in first place? Is that...

I didn't say he's a sociopath. It wasn't nice that he tried to meet up at midnight w someone behind my back at midnight alone at a bar immediately after telling me he loved me for first time, but...

It's BS, because do you know what ultimately led to our breakup? Not me talking about marriage which he now claims to be my big flaw. But rather me bringing up thT the girl whom he flirted with over...

I am sure there's a way. It just has to be something dramatic.

After 14 months of dating I told my BF "not sure if we're on the same page- you haven't said 'I love you' back and I don't know if you really want the kind of future, marriage kids etc, that I do."...

This is a very insightful, wise post and I agree. It is bizarre for me to say "I don't want a normal man." I am ackn owledging that he is not, and that he's cold, but when he starts to break down...

Why? I'm just a girl who loves a guy who loves her back but has some commitment issues to work through first.

I just feel better now than when I was living there. When I was right there, he took me for granted. But how do u explain why a guy who used to Stone cold ignore me for days w every conflict, now...

Ok but in your example
Of a friend who got strung along was the guy actually telling her he'd eventually marry her whenever he felt the Time was right? Because mine did

If he ultimately planned on marrying someone else then he wouldn't have even been associating w me this long! He told me on phone that he misses me and the door isn't closed for us and who knows what...