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From your description, I can empathize with her. I can't tell you how many times I've tried to figure out how I was misreading signals of interest and was later told "My friend really liked you, but...

No, she doesn't. If she did, she would have pushed for it. Or, she might, but knows she shouldn't. She may be ready to break it off with her boyfriend.

Like Superfantastich said, it's wrong. You...

Not really. It sounds, to me, like two guys who are trying to come to grips with their age decided to do something unusual spontaneously. Kind of a reminiscing "How long has it been since we...?"...

I agree with it, but I guess I've always read it in a more positive light. When I read that, it strikes me as a statement to look at the character of person the action represents. Bringing me flowers...

Deal with her smoking or break-up. I have a feeling "social smoker" was not the term you were looking for, as even the most vehemently anti-smokers can deal with someone who lights up over a drink...

No, I haven't. I don't really want to. Until this started, I was perfectly content and happy with him. Really, I still am, but I don't like knowing he's being hurt by expecting something I'm not...

Thanks, James. He never gets openly upset, but I can see and hear some pain when he breaks the awkward silence. I worry that you're right and he's just jumping into this because I'm not "as bad" as...

I've been seeing my boyfriend for 2 months. We got serious and exclusive quite fast. From the get-go, we were both extremely comfortable with each other. BUT we both ended very long term relationsips...

She's not playing you. In fact, she probably thinks you're playing her. You initiate physical contact, develop an emotional closeness, then use crass words like "sexy" all the while never making a...

At first glance? Hrm...

If you catch her looking at you, and she looks away with a little smile, she's interested. Caveat: If she looks to something else purposefully (a friend, a sign, a cell...

I think you want it to mean something. Honestly, I don't think it means anything.

Why did you break up?

I'm not complaining. I'm just curious.

I have friends who are constantly asked for their numbers. Not in lore, in actuality.

So...general consensus is to balls up and start asking. Will do. I'm...

Walk away. She's a bucket of drama and a trainwreck. You're setting yourself up for trouble. Bipolar + alcohol = catastrophe. Just...find someone else.

How old is she? That makes a huge difference.

Here's my diagnosis from a mid-20s perspective: She's chemically attracted to you, but thinks/knows it will never work. Sometimes, she loses...

Title says it all. I've had this experience 4 times in 3 weeks. When I don't have my kids, I get super stir crazy and head out for the evening. I'll find someone interesting to talk to. I've...

Sleeping with him was a really bad move. It's going to be hard to fix that and reframe the relationship now. "Friends" don't have sex. Just remember that. Until he's willing to verbalize you're more...

Not really. Everyone has their quirks. Some people take a little bit to relax and open up, so I don't usually go by the initial hand shake and hello. It's definitely a turn ON when a guy is...

Yes. Probably. If he truly means he wants to remain friends, he may be considering a future with you. He may see it going to something serious and is afraid the speed of the relationship is putting...

These women are using the man to induce jealousy in the Ex. If the Ex sees that she is happy with someone else, maybe he will realize he's lost her and try to win her back. That's the mental thought...

So...while Wakeup's response was a little harsh, it's kind of true. You guys broke it off. Passwords or not, you don't sneak a peek. Let her go and move on. You really sound like a control freak....

LoL, no. =) I met him through a friend (of a friend) at a local event. Initially, I'd asked my friend to get one of her hubby's single friends to keep me occupied for the night, as there was dancing....

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I'm 26, and, as my handle says, I've never dated. I guess after the past few months I have, but I'm still pretty green. Here is my story.

I started dating my (soon to be ex) husband when we...

I met (the traditional way, for once!) a fairly cool guy. He comes across as very reserved and, perhaps, even a bit unsure of himself. There seemed to be chemistry. Long story short, I failed to...