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the waterboys - she is so beautiful

this is why you need to spend some time feeling comfortable and getting confident within yourself first Lilia, you seem a nice girl but you're getting way too anxious over a first date and maybe...

aw hun maybe just a bit of a tiff because he wanted you to go there and then, maybe he wanted to get intimate way too quickly which suggests he may not be that nice a guy after all, just speculating...

happy for you Lilia :D still wish you were confident enough in yourself to know you're attractive without some guy telling you though, hope the next date goes well my advice would be enjoy it for...

ok well maybe its understandable to be turned off by someone if they put on a little weight but your first post reads as though you'd like her to be a different person in so much as becoming a lover...

jeez man this may sound harsh but you sound as though you've got a few emotional problems there, getting hung up on an old girlfriend is one thing but wasting 8 years of your life because of a crush...

its an odd one, maybe you're not that physically attracted to him? as in you like his personality but maybe his looks do nothing for you, or possibly underneath you're scared of getting too close and...

sometimes Lilia its about chemistry, you can appreciate that some people are attractive without wanting them yourself, i agree that you need to move on its only you that can effect that change, as...

alcoholism,gambling addiction,drug addiction,sex addiction,petty criminal behaviour,financial difficulties,emotional difficulties, lets bar anyone with any of these issues from seeking love and...

you will Lilia it takes time and a bit of effort because its not an easy thing but you'll get there chic

if it helps hun i can tell you that people staying with their first love for life is a very rare thing these days and you know yourself deep down that the relationship you were in was hurting you...

good for you molly as you say very few perfect people in this world and it sounds like we think along the same lines re love is rare and once you find it its worth fighting for, starting to feel like...

truthfully sounds like it would be a painful route for you to take, its your call but settling for far less than you want in the hope that at some point in the future she'll ditch him and turn to...

sounds to me like he was definitely attracted to you and as pc master said he's a young guy so not necessarily going to be brimming with confidence and life experience seriously hun its a first date...

hmm thats not a capital offence chic most guys wouldn't even notice trust me ;)

sorry just read this one skipped it before, lilia you seem a lovely girl but seriously you need to fully get over your ex before you can move on, nobodies going to stand much of a chance with you...

if he could do it in the first place i doubt guilt is at the root of it, maybe a combination of keeping the flame alive (for him at least) and a misguided attempt to keep his options open, as the...

oh man that sounds like a horrible situation feel for you, firstly its not always you people are getting their hearts broken every second of every day, its just part of the human condition, secondly...

oh lilia calm down hun you don't know that it may be your under-confidence showing through, let him be the judge of how much he did or didn't enjoy the night girl you really need to start being...

doubt boredom's the problem maybe just a bit scared at the quick change in your relationship, he's been happy to worship you from afar for a long while and now he's got the chance to make it more so...

ok well honestly as i've said i've been out with curvier girls and indeed did marry one this maybe just me personally but a pretty face has always counted far more to me than a hot body as it happens...

as dickriculous said its not just girls who struggle with body image these days its definitely guys too, we all have media images we strive to live up to, also i think its a bit of a misconception...

for me its in the early days texting while you work out if there could be something good between you and then once you're more comfortable with each other mainly calls with a few loving/flirty texts...

he sounds very stressed out that is a fact and that could be behind his snapping at you and subsequent coldness but unless he opens up to you its difficult to say if the problems any deeper. i have...

well you're young yet Lilia and those are things you can work on, strength and independence along with the confidence to be yourself may come naturally with age, as for fear of change most of us have...