This boy is not responsible of your suffering. More you hope people to be unhappy more you will become unhappy.
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This boy is not responsible of your suffering. More you hope people to be unhappy more you will become unhappy.
It's obvious; break heart hurts. I read a lot of topic here and there and the solution is the same for everyone; don't fight new situation and love yourself. See every events like a way to grow and...
I agree and maybe you could try to meet someone, not to make her jealous, but to realise that you can love someone else.
If he feels that you are afraid he will probably go away, but let him free and he will be attracted by you.
The second step after acceptance is; observation.
Emotional transmutation
The Transmutation Technique
Begin the Transmutation Technique by selecting some recent event that you feel guilty...
Are you sure that you suffer because of him? At the begining you was good with the situation, what changed? I think you could observe how you feel alone and abandoned. You don't miss him, you feel...
I am absolutely agree with that, it's what I do and it helps so much to focus on myself and what I feel , because it's the only thing that matters; what we feel inside.
I know only one way and it doesn't mean that it will work, because everyone is free.
Love this person.
Just that.
If you love someone, youwill do everything possible to make her happy and maybe...
When you through a broken heart, the first thing to do is to accept it completely.
The pain you have resists and hurts because you don't let the experience go. The best exemple I have is this one;...
The reason why you react that much to this topic it's because one day you wanted to love someone, but a system make you believe that you couldn't..anyway take the time to look at your reaction.
A...
Love is something wonderful. Sometimes we can hear people say" Love hurts so much". Be careful, love doesn't hurt, in fact, you are the only one responsible for your suffering. Not easy to accept,...
Absolutly agree with that!
Ask her. She tried to flee something and just have what she wants when she wants ( I understand well I did the same), but if you don,t stop her, she will always play this game and both of you will...
The first step is forvigness. I am not talking bout forvie the one who did that, I am talking about forvige ourselves and accept to grow from this experience. I know it seems easy to say, but I know...
Oh yes I did :) and I understood that it's not always about what is happening outisde. I explain myself. I remember one time where I felt rejected just because I looked to a guy in the bus and a girl...
Of course you deserve love, but I'm not talking about love from other. You have to love yourself first for what you are and accept everything you are. If you feel love for you, you will radiate this...
I practice this 'technic' since I read that and my life change so much. Everything is more simple and it helps me to let it go of people who rejected me.
from the book
Quantum Buddhism
Mahajrya...