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Okay. I get it. I'll leave her be. This was the first date I've been on where I was actually into the girl since my last relationship (which ended in disaster).. and it's hard not to get caught up in...

Is she the one? The tone in your post suggests otherwise. You don't seem happy.
Start with that =/

But at least you got an answer and weren't left wondering. You're all probably shaking your heads thinking I just need to suck it up and move on, which I will be doing.. but not without a fight! I...

I live in a pretty big city, yes there are lots of bars around.. but like I said before, this place was my spot. I'm not going to run and hide from this girl just because she doesn't want to date me....

Okay I get it. I'm a realist and I get that if a girl is into someone, she's going to find reasons to talk to him.. which is completely fine.

What I don't get is what I'm supposed to do about it....

At this point, there is little to hope for. Your relationship has a ton of baggage while not officially being a relationship. You may have the chemistry, but since you've taken this long and haven't...

Backstory:

- Boy frequents local bar near his office and becomes a regular and gets to know all the wait staff
- Boy and bartender have great chemistry and flirt whenever they see each other....

It's been a while since I've written here. 3 months since my ex (of 4 years) left the country and 8 months since we broke up. We've kept very minimal contact since she left, with her always...

Today is particularly hard. I went to sleep thinking about you, woke up the same. I remember all the beautiful moments we shared but that inevitably leads to the darker and more hurtful times. ...

Give it to a mutual friend if you can? If not, tell him he needs to pick up his stuff within X days or you're going to get rid of it. Don't be mean about it, just honest and straightforward. You...

How do you feel right now? Pretty bad I'm guessing. Just remind yourself that SHE is making you feel this way because of her indecisiveness and selfishness. You've been acting like a couple, she...

I'm a mess. My ex left for London on Monday, I was with her and a friend at her parents' place helping her pack and just meandering and wallowing around until she had to leave for the airport. ...

It's all come down to this weekend. Months of anguish, false healing, trying to re-condition myself to thinking I am okay. She's leaving on Monday.. I helped her move on Tuesday and it breaks my...

I bought the book yesterday due to the overwhelming support it receives on this forum. I'm hoping it'll do me some good. 'Energy' knows I need it.

Welcome to the world of shit pixie =/

Your situation is very simliar to mine and I feel your pain. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do. If your relationship was breaking down and he was...

I think we're past that point. There's no way we're getting back together, that would make no sense. I think i just want her to want to be with me before she leaves. To want her to make spending...

I just don't know what to do. She acts so cold and indifferent at times, tells me she likes this guy and wants to move on and not keep bringing up our history. Understandable. But then she gets...

I'm having an extremely hard time passing the days. For those of you who know my sob story, my ex and I broke up months ago and she started seeing someone else. She's also leaving for London in 3...

It's extremely painful and difficult to be friends with your ex. Unless both sides have actually moved on and there are no hidden agendas on either side, someone is guaranteed to get hurt.

What was that last night? Was that an intentional ambush? Did you really want to see me? Did I hurt you by ignoring you? Did you go home with that guy? **** my life. I was in such a rage last...

Half together is just a delusion. Sorry to shit on your parade, I really hope it works out for you, but make sure you know where she's at. You don't want to be caught off guard by her and breaking...

The idea of you makes me nauseous. I can't think about you without thinking about you and him and it grosses me out. I'm sad your self esteem is so low that you keep finding losers to fill your...

I say **** it. If she's texting you at 3 in the morning AND she has a bf, then there's definitely something up. Or at least you're entitled to think she's interested. Keep it light and casual,...

So I'm friends with this girl I used to work with and we were both in relationships at the time but we still managed to hang out every so often. Always drinking with this girl, she's a great person...

It's good to hear from people that are on their way to recovery. It's a nice change from the usual theme around here.

I feel 100x better than I have in the last couple weeks, and it's refreshing...