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a great honest answer. thanks! as a smaller guy that is nice to hear. "not a deal breaker, but make up for it!" well thank god for oral :)

in a vaccum, looks and attraction matter. of course. if all i have is a picture, i pick what is most attractive. however, that is just one piece. personality is another and likely more important...

emotions are essential for me to have sex. without them i'd rather just masturbate.
the emotions are what make it so exciting!

My wife wants me to buy her a new toy. I want to buy one also.
she wants a dildo b/c we already have 2 vibrators.

the question is what size?!??! i think she wants a really big one, but doesn't...

Doh! I knew it LOL!!! my poor skinny cock :(

too bad it wasn't a movie. so embarrassing?!?!?! Everytime I saw here afterwards she just sort of gave me a a knowing, sweet but pitiful, smirk!!

that's the unfortunate nature of insecurity and an obsession about it. i wish i could just not care about it. not contemplating anything extra-marital. i'm happy i have a great woman, and i am not...

who is Neo?

thanks sweetkisses. insecurity dies hard!

its not the golf. it seems to be a lack of connection between you to.
massage does not seem appropriate, even if just the "hand"
go with your instincts.

does the size of a flacid penis matter at all?

i know that when i'm at attention i am "average" sized (thanks to all the nice answers in my other post).

however when soft i am downright tiny. ...

i have the same opinion of women! i look at the ass as well :)

i know men are more visual than women, but what do you like to look at on men's bodies that you find sexy?

chest?
arms?
butts?
legs?
packages?
all of it?

just curious if there is a...

i finally got the chance to hooke up with a girl that i just loved in college. however i was OVER excited. while i was going down on her I CAME!
she said "did you just....."
she was cool. ...

he could be more discrete. he could look at less. you could tell him that if he has that "urge" and you around that you have a better option than porn for him.

good luck.

i hate to generalize, but some men watch porn for simple visual stimulation. we are simple. we like to masturbate and looking at porn provides the necesarry visual stimulant to get off.
i would...

so many good answers! i think there is a generational thing to it. you like what you first saw sort of thing. but the message is pretty clear, first: to each his own and let's celebrate variety! ...

so true. i'm doing my best to keep my insecurity on the inside so it doesn't show. act strong! :)
and i totally agree with your man. confident women are SO attractive.

hmmm...Smackie9! Now that sounds like a great idea! anything to look bigger LOL!!! (i know, i'm so pathetic!)

haha on the ego *stroke*! i never stopped wondering about size. beore married and now. i just never asked about it before. it came up recently b/c my wife and i talked about size. so that is the...

so true!!! just showing my insecurity about my size :) if i was bare, i'd look like a toddler!

Thanks, Smackie9! before and after pictures to follow!!!!
(just kidding)
:)

thanks! neatly trimmed it was and Valentine's Day was great! I hope yours was nice also :)

neatly trimmed sounds good, but isn't bare on a man a little strange looking!!

its hard to find someone who makes you feel special, so if you found somebody then you should pursue it. generally i would say be careful of online relationships b/c you don't know who you are...