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I haven't seen that movie.

Why does this mean things are getting worse? The same, maybe, but not worse. I admit that it could be nothing, but I just felt that she wanted to say...

I'm not sure what you're referring to.

I suggest you try it. You might end up thinking: was I really attracted to him??? I've had that happen with girls I knew years ago.

Update: I ran into her mom. I was a gentleman and didn't say anything stupid. I gave her a big smile and congratulated her and said he seems like a nice guy. Her friends were nearby, and she said:...

Thanks for sharing this with me. 29 years - wow! Are there any recent photos of him online? That might help you get over him, seeing how he has aged and no longer looks the same.

...unless they're one of those who realize it's a mistake and break it off.

Oh yes I am listening. I'm not doing my original idea of asking her out - thanks to you all. You've all made me think more realistically, and I thank you.

On the other hand, you all think I...

Because I've had a huge crush on her for 1 year, thinking of nobody else.

Well, thanks for listening and advising. I understand the need to be realistic, but as they say, the greatest risk in life is taking no risk at all.

OK, Ashley, that is a possibility I cannot deny. Yes, she may very well have considered us "just friends" all along. So you see I'm not delusional to the point where I'm sure she wants me. She's...

I'll let it go after the wedding. OK, I won't gather info, just keep my ears open and be attuned to people's reactions. So far my friends have been surprised and one guy said it won't last (I know,...

I suppose I'd shout it out too, just not in that way. I'd say how great she is, not how lucky I am.

Holy cow! I just Googled him and found out his age: 5.5 years older than me!! OMG! I though he was around my age. And I'm 3 years older than her. So he's 8 or 9 years older than her!

This...

True, and he has more experience than me and can play the game better. But she's had relationships before that have ended (I mean, they've never gotten to the point of engagement), so there must be...

I'm afraid so.

I just want to get a sense of whether the mom is happy with the guy or not. But I might not dare ask that question...I'll play it by ear.

Yes, I'm jealous. I just think bragging like that is in...

I wouldn't ask her to cheat, just to reconsider if she's having 2nd thoughts about spending the rest of her life with him.

This ticks me off:

He posted this on Facebook under one of her photos: "I'm the luckiest guy in the whole world!!"

What an idiot for bragging! Yes, it was luck for a schmoe like him to get a...

I'm thinking of asking her mom: "Your daughter is a beautiful girl and lots of guys were interested in her. Why do you think she chose this guy?".

What do you all think of that? (I should...

I did ask myself that, and I stopped trying because of it. But now I feel that I shouldn't have stopped FOREVER. I should have waited a couple of weeks or a month, and then, seeing that we're still...

I want to do something like this, but I don't know if I can pull it off. I mean, first of all, I'd have to see her without him. And then the first thing we'll talk about is how it feels to be...

Gotta go...will be back tonight or tomorrow.

Right. She said she'll get back to me but never did.

SelflessnHumble,

She's flirtatious by nature - the way she talks, jokes around (hard to give examples and they won't come out well in text). Warm heart - she's warm and kind and sweet, yet strong...

At the very least, she was interested enough to learn more about me, but I didn't step up to the plate. Or maybe I did; I'll never find out...so sad.