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LostOne, is it in your nature to invade someone else's privacy? If not, then she brings out the worst in you.

As for her, that's an awful lot of drama packaged in one bundle. Divorced by 21,...

Intimate relationships are not the only relationships where emotions are involved. Friends like to know that you care about them too.

How about try taking it slowly then? Hang out only as much as you can handle. Who knows? Perhaps you'll find out that he's a cool guy too.

There is no compromise on having kids. If you want them and can't imagine not having them, move on. In a situation when one wants a kid and the other doesn't, there will be resent: someone who...

If you could contact her, what would you say?

When there's an age difference, the connection between the two is key. From the older woman's perspective, my guess on the initial concerns would be:


Is he interested because of her sexual...

Can you recognize that your crush's brother is not your crush? Perhaps he likes you as a person that he wants to be your friend. If you can't be friends with your crush's brother, then I can...

You need to stop having sex with her, as it confuses your emotions and makes it difficult to make the decision that is right for you.

You don't have to justify your feelings for why a...

Did her relationship status change?

Ever heard of the phrase, "cake and eat it too?"

I understand that you still love her, and ten years is a long time to be with someone, so kudos. You two could actually try to make this work, but...

Your love for her cannot fix any personal demons she has.

She needs to work on herself. I'm not sure you can motivate her to want to "do something" in her life, and if she "does something,"...

First thought is, "the likeliness of him having an STD is greatly diminished."

Virginity is not a big deal, unless it is for religious reasons, where I would question whether or not he is sexually...

I would say she still wants you. Do you want her back?

Toddstar, with 40 comes more wisdom and life experiences. Do not fear it.

I don't rule out the possibility that the Universe IS sending you a message. Accidental damage to two items that you...

Thanatology is an interesting topic. One thing to remember is that death is harder on the living.

When it is my time, I will go to a state that has assisted euthanasia.

I wonder this question too...

AlexD, ask yourself if you feel she is worth fighting for. If she is, muster up all the patience you can have for her. Women, and men, who have felt betrayal in a most intimate way will typically...

Yes, dior01, he sounds like a guy who needs to show the world that he isn't shooting blanks and that he knows how to aim. Don't take it personally; it's not about you, but him.

I have trust and honesty with my platonic friends. I don't have sex with them, however.

In an intimate relationship, trust, honesty, and sex are equal, but it's the sex that distinguishes my...

Avarice, the way I see it, you have two issues: 1) self conscious over your ileostomy, and 2) self conscious over your lack of dating experience. I may be a bit cynical here, but I don't think...

Personality trumps looks more often than you'd expect. Have some faith in yourself.

Actually, a breakup of an intimate relationship is very psychologically similar to death. The OP is mourning the death of a relationship. When it comes to relationships, I think many people want...

Girl, quite frankly, you dodged a major arse bullet, you got a get-out-of-jail-for-free card, or otherwise known as a blessing in disguise. Your ex sounds like the kind of guy who just wants his F...

I am almost 40 and am proud to say that I have not ever accidentally nor purposefully gotten pregnant. I am at the home stretch of my personal marathon to not have children; though my extended...

Welcome, Lucerno. Hope you find some semblance here.