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Yes, there are counselling services there. I've just been too embarrassed to go.

After sleeping on it, I feel I have come to the wrong conclusions about myself. I don't really hate myself, I just hate being lonely. I am a very successful student and have my whole life before me,...

Thanks to you both. I wish I had a solution to that problem, thus far I have been feigning confidence. I just don't know how to build it. I work out, I take care of my appearance. What else is there...

[PLEASE READ THE START OF POST #9, IGNORE THIS POST]

I don't like myself at the moment. Do not assume that I am depressed, because that is not true. I don't feel valuable to anyone. Social...

Hello,

I am experiencing a crisis of self-confidence which is leading to a spiral into, out of and around moderate depression. I can not be confident because of several barriers.

1. Having...

Hey all,

This isn't an advert or anything. I just wondered if 'Double your dating' by David D'Angelo has any useful tips in it.

Cheers,

Syph

Great advice... I need to play it cool and see what happens.



17, and I'm plagued by anxiety about my current friendship situation and my future with women. They are priorities #2 and #3, my...

For lack of a better word, a more suitable phrase would be strongly compatible person.



Your right, which is why I have a problem.



I don't want a 10 per se, I want a 7+. If I don't...

Hey ladies,

Do girls appreciate a guy who is mature/sophisticated (gentlemanly, even)? Or do they prefer "lads"?

I'm a teenager stuck in the boat of being mature before my time. I don't know if...

Hey,

I have a major issue with my "standards" of the women I seek. I read somewhere that people with similar attractiveness get on best. The women I have got numbers off in the past tend to be in...

Hey all (an women despite the forum),

I'm a 17 year old guy to get everything straight.

The problem is I feel sexually and emotionally repressed. I don't feel like an adult, I feel like a...

I'm friendly, confident (perhaps too keen?), caring, sensitive, quite sarcastic, mature and intelligent (perhaps boring). I tend to be quite confident around girls but not confident enough to tease...

Be a realist. Your 'crush' is the equivalent of a honeymoon, unless you love him stay with your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend would be utterly destroyed that you left him to get married purely on a...

I have been an arrogant failure in making a relationship. As the title suggests I don't think it is anything to do with the women I date.

Either:

I'm not meeting the right women...
My...

Assume she's being friendly until she kisses you. Then chose your current girlfriend and suggest that you stay friends.

You'll probably devalue yourself in your own eyes if you do this.



Sex doesn't equate happiness and neither do relationships. Happiness comes from rich experiences where you are doing stuff...

Yet you complain about the scars on your face! It's obvious that you want to change. You even want to leave your friends!

The changes you would make are not big. Being confident, playful and...

The reason why they go with "jerks" is because most "jerks" are softies on the inside and "bad" on the outside. The outside part makes them interesting. It makes them easygoing and a fun time. Girls...

Embarrassingly no... We have arranged a date after the exams. In hindsight, I realise the first sentence of the original post was a little misleading to be fair.



The way he went about it was...

Tell her to kick his ass out of the relationship. His thoughts are elsewhere. Looking at women is fine, but flirting when you are in a relationship is abuse. I've never met anyone who got a...

More like a good suitor, we're not a couple. I'm building it up because we're both busy this week.



Not a clue... seems to be very possessive over her though. He even interviewed me on facebook...

This could be difficult considering we haven't been on our first date. However, we have organised a date next week... I'm not really in a position to make demands for answers. Should I still do what...

I'll keep this brief as it is a relationships forum. Religion concerns things like the afterlife and helps people come to terms with death. When you add the non-existent good/bad distinction you are...

This still doesn't help me come a a decision if he's manipulating her from the sidelines, I mean what kind of girl lets a guy mate on her phone. She either doesn't care, in which case I'll stop...

Crazy ass religious extremists. Seriously don't mess about with these people. This isn't harmless fun and games, these people are truly messed up.

If you want to turn out like that by all means...