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Dude... Without sounding too harsh you both need to grow up and move on. Between the abortion, the controlling behaviour and insecurity, you talking with other girls you've had feelings for in the...

I agree with Bulrush. 5 years is more than enough time to sort your emotional dramas out and commit. I think if this guy isn't willing to even show up on time when you only get to see each other once...

Naiharn and Kalim are two beaches in Phuket where people go to surf (among others) for the people who said you can't surf in Thailand. As for my 'little issue' I have an update!

I took the advice...

Exactly what I've been thinking. There are loads of places to surf right here in our own backyard without needing to go to Thailand to do it. Despite thinking (hoping?) he might have the moral...

Jesus,

I love your post! In the words of the legendary Jonie Mitchell 'Don't it always seem to go that you don't know what you got till it's gone.'

Women don't understand the male brain either....

Marcus,

I've been guilty of initial interest and then the big fade out. It's not that you're not a great guy with a lot to offer because you sound awesome :)

Sometimes when some girls are...

Oldskool has the right idea. Asking a person out is a great way of letting them know that you're interested without having to come out and say the words. Wait and see how the first date goes and if...

Smackie is totally right if it's going to develop into something more committed it will just happen naturally, however because you haven't been overly expressive perhaps she decided you're not great...

Loveislife,

It's a double standard that guys can go around hooking up with anything that moves and still be capable of a serious relationship, but when a girl does it means she's a slut who has...

No worries ;)

The length of your post is fine btw.

~Lemon

Veerebby,

Our bodies naturally build up something called oxytocin when we are close with someone. Even if that person has done the most horrible things behind your back it can sometimes take a...

Tannie,

What's to be scared of girl? He's your BEST FRIEND! The one person you feel the most comfortable and secure with. If you want him GO GET YOUR MAN! You already know you have the upperhand...

'You don't want me but you don't want anyone else to want me' comes to mind in this situation.

I could be wrong here but your post sounds kind of like you're dealing with the green eyed monster....

Oddly enough 'treat them mean and keep them keen' seems to work in a lot of cases. I've seen so many of my fellow women who get bored unless they have to work for their man's affection. Considering...

Hi Pepper,

Don't ignore the first two comments in this thread. They are exactly the kind of attitude toward relationships that you are trying to avoid. Sure we all know that men love sex and want...

First one...

To gauge her level of interest when you actually talk to her to make the plans for a second outing, maybe suggest leaving the third wheel at home. She's probably already established...

Hi Oshjo :)

It's a tough situation but I'd give her the benefit of the doubt for another couple of weeks. Unless you're really into someone you don't tell your grandma about them so I think she's...

Hi Daydream :)

You sound like a really friendly, positive and happy go lucky kind of girl. Sometimes those personality traits coupled with the fact that you are physically affectionate with your...

Hello Love Forum!

This is totally long winded but please please please give me some advice. I'm usually pretty good at reading people and giving relationship advice but when it comes to the...