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Doppel is full of insight, as usual. You should take what she believes and turn it against her. That will make her decide to be an atheist, AND love you more. Win-win!

Being open-minded can only...

Have to agree with the other ladies: if I am already interested, I won't be turned off by his show of interest. (If I'm NOT already interested, I might be turned off - but in that case, there's not...

DON'T do this whole "keep putting if off, it's fine if you don't want to go out with me" thing. ASK her on a date at a specific time. Keep trying until you have good reason to believe she's not...

I agree that gentlemanly and well-mannered are synonymous.

Just another thought - chivalry can be conveyed in different ways. A guy can fawn all over you and make a show of opening doors and being...

I have to say that I don't think holding out on sex is a "game-playing" technique. Why can't a woman protect her emotions by not sleeping with a guy she's not sure about?

Hey Neo, I don't think I was around for this. What did you do exactly?


And why the fcuk?

I know how to make muffins.

I'm sure you do. (Chuckle.)

Paying doesn't show you're ueber-interested. Especially if you met the girl on a dating site. Your intentions are already somewhat clear, so paying just shows good manners in my opinion. Also, this...

Fixed your post.

Also, I think emotional pain is worse.

Yeah, totally. If I was going out with a drunk, I'd prefer a stupid one.

:D What does this even mean?!

I saw it awhile ago because my best friend is obsessed with Neil Young. I remember liking it but we didn't finish it.

It's not just girls. I don't "love" talking on the phone but I prefer it to texting. I went out for awhile with a guy who would text always always always, to the point where if I called him instead...

I agree with Indi. I have heard confusing lines before, but "I don't not like you" is not one of them.

Sounds like you are doing everything right. She really needs to shape up. My instinct would be to tell her NOW that this is a dealbreaker for you. I understand that this could hurry the demise of...

Focus less on being a good conversationalist and instead on being a good listener. Ask lots of questions. LISTEN to the answers and use them to ask more questions or, if appropriate, to add something...

Also, beware of girls who don't have girl friends. It's not healthy to be unable to connect to your own gender in a friendly way. It probably means that she feels threatened by other girls, or other...

I make a point not to play foosball with men I'm attracted to, at least not when I first meet them. I'm extremely competitive, and I usually win, so I like people to get to know me before they see...

CARL!!!
I've missed you!

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Also, realize that the reason that bars and parties aren't good places aren't because there aren't quality women there, but because the atmosphere is not conducive to striking up a conversation...

You're an idiot, doppel.

Nick, it's funny that even when you're supposedly in Montreal living it up, you still take time to troll message boards.

Actually, I think your way isn't the best. I don't like the offhand approach - it makes it seem like you might just store her number in case you need another make-out session. Sure, pull her aside...