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I just wrote a huge post as a reply to yours and then somehow i got logged out and logged back in and lost it all…But I will write you again, since it’s eating me alive now - you took time from your...

Hello all,

I have been in a relationship with a guy from work for about 3,5 months. though we have a much longer history. we've known each other for about 1,5 years. for the first 6 months or so...

so turned out he DID change his mind about being with me. AGAIN. and he left me. AGAIN.
I cannot believe that somebody can do this. Especially when he says how important I am to him and how much he...

we figured that one out. turned out it was jut him being grumpy after not getting enough sleep... we had a great day later on and a whole great week after that.

Now a new problem. And I ask for...

Thank you once again. I really appreciate your advice. It feels like you really get how I feel. It's very very helpful to have that:).

I am trying to rationalize whenever those feelings of doubt...

Yeah, that's what I thought too. Thank you very much for the input:) I though that I shouldn't totally let my guard down just yet, given all the stuff that happened in the past. But it's getting more...

Thank you both for your advise. I appreciate it very very much, that you put your time and energy into my problems:).

I started talking to him again, after I heard at work that he is really...

Exactly what I was thinking. Especially when he said it himself he'll give me time... I am not gonna just get over it overnight.. This whole thing probably meant much less to him than it did to me...

I know you are totally right about all of this. It's not him who is hurting me and one day this will all be just a memory and we will probably be both happy with somebody else.

But now it is...

thank you both for your advice.



as of today it's been three weeks since I went no contact with him.



I don't agree that's something you do only when you are 8. It's just too painful for...

I have been friends with benefits with my coworker for almost a year (it began after a month since I started working here). though I really wanted more almost all of the time.

during this time, I...

I wrote a lot about this guy awhile ago.

To summarise:
I started a new job last October and started to fancy one of my co-workers. He seemed interested too and we started hanging out a lot and...

I really like reading your replies and your insights and I noticed I was really waiting for it for a few days so of course you've been missed:}}

Seems like you are kind of skeptical about this guy...

first of all - yayyy!! you came back! Where have you been? :D

and about my man... something's changed.
Almost couple weeks ago I just decided to stop caring about all this. Like how I went to...

About that work incident - he wasn't really making fun - just laughed it off because the other guy is kind of our boss, so I understand that, though I wouldn't do the same. And then later on the same...

I came to the office on saturday to finish up some work. I actually really like coming to the office on saturday. Just to sit here alone and peacfully and do all my work relaxed and chilled without...

Thank you as always:) made me calmer somehow about the upcoming conversation I need yo have witg him.

Not for a second I thought that you might be critisizing me or anything.. actually it's good...

firstly about that waiting around for someone... I always remember my first love. I liked him from the very first time I saw him. I used to even think he was out of my league and I was completely...

Mine too. That's why I don't wanna play games or anything like that. And I want to be honest not just with him, but with myself as well and only when I do that, I can really feel good about myself....

Well if you ever decide to try the vegetarian thing, let me know how it goes:} and I couldn't go full on vegan either. But I don't even think it's natural. I am all about everything natural when it...

I am glad to hear that you are happy. I really really wish you to find real love one day. As you mentioned you feel like you were meant for love I do understand what that feels like, I really really...

Thank you for such a sincere reply.
By now I am almost sure he hasn't met someone else and all those speculations was just me being crazy once again.
Anyways it is obvious that he is not taking...

TheEvilJester
Actually, the guys I dated while being a vegetarian started to eat much less meat while with me.
If you really wanted to try a month of vegetarian food challenge, I could try and help...

TheEveilJester I have been a vegetarian for about 4 years now. I used to think the same way like you that I CAN'T be a vegetarian. I used to eat meat every day with almost every meal and I loved it....

Just message him. Just something casual. Like I haven't heard form you in a while, how are you?.. And just see how he reacts. Really no amount of worrying will help you (trust me, I speak from...