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Good man :)

Come back and tell us how it works out!

I'd really be interested to know :)

This response was fricken awesome!!

What an empowering preply :)

And there you go.

melancholia basically admitted that the guy she slept in the same bed with non-sexually started dating her afterwards.

But she's definitely right with the sex thing. Don't...

That's basically what I was trying to say ^^

Don't be too quick to jump into another relationship.

Enjoy life

Thanks - I am. But life isn't without it's mishaps. Hehe

If you don't want to mess up a 23 year friendship then forget you even thought of an intimate relationship with him. Because as soon as it...

You have plenty of time to be sucked up in life. Enjoy it.

My biggest regret in my 20's was that I was too busy searching for a soul mate that I missed out on living my life.

Enjoy it whilst...

He didn't meet your standards.

NEXT

There are plenty of good guys out there that will meet your standards. If you take less than you feel what you deserve then that is a recipe for disaster.
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Haha.

Well. If you don't change the boundaries or take any risks you'll never know.

I get it. I really do. Women really want the man to make the first move. Sometimes us men are utterly...

Ok. Toughie because I feel you're a genuinely nice guy.

Women don't do any of that shit unless they have an interest in you. I was (not now) a super hot young man and the only woman that ever did...

He could be having actual problems, but then again he could be losing interest.

I seriously wouldn't over think this. Guys that don't keep you in the loop at the start, well, that's a trend that...

You're super over-analysing this.

Ask him out - there is no code. "Want to go and get a coffee? Just me and you?"

Done.

Then you'll know :)

Thing with telling how a man likes you is that it's super easy.

Hey guy, I like you - want to date? And you'll get your answer. Short, sweet, to the point.

You'll never ever be able to let him...

Well, it was and is a state of continual development I guess. I mean I just rolled with it and told myself that settling down and being normal is awesome. After a while it becomes natural - and you...

Hey dude.

Absolutely reasonable. It is never unreasonable to want the things that we crave the most (apart from addictions of course).

I was basically single all the way up until I was 27....

Hi to OP.

Those feelings are completely natural, it's fine, these things happen from time to time. Especially if you have a self-destructive mind like I once had!

Were your parents...

Aw, man. And there was me really enjoying what you had to say lightstar. And then I came across this.

I think people are missing a HUGE point here. Lightstar doesn't like her man watching Porn and...

It can be a combination of things I'm afraid, but don't worry about it too much. When you worry about sex, the less appealing it becomes.

I've been Married for 7 years now - we've went from having...

Deary me, Sir.

I guess time will tell. I also think it will depend on how insecure she is. I'm quite chunky myself but if you were to call me all the derivations of chunky it wouldn't bother me....

Thank you :)

Yep. I think you're thinking that over a bit too much. Us men are all the same. We get too comfortable and forget to tell our significant other how beautiful she looks, or how awesome they make us...

Hi there,

New resident here. I'm 35, Married and in the UK. I'm a former grass roots community organiser and Mental Health activist. If there's two great things I've learned in life it would be to...