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Hey Jahna,

This is RED, burning bright flags all over the place. It is really UNBELIEVABLE!!!!! that he can be so cynical and make you the 'bad guy'. Possessive woman??? Had not thank him...

basilandthyme, well then it sure is different. I know from my experience countless times my friends come crying to me, to get advice and just to after go and do the same mistakes. As a result I...

basilandthyme, Boisdevie, what are you doing?? The way you reply seems like you take this so personally, like someone has told you that you or your partner is untrustworthy! All you can do is say so...

The thing that makes everything easier is that I am coming to visit him soon. I think if there was no date setup, then it would be more important.

It's time to forget them. BOTH.

Well, it is not a typical situation because we are in a long distance relationship now. For me it is not interesting to talk about these things if real action is not coming so soon. When we are close...

wow, dickriculous, what an amazing insight!
The analogy about fish and strawberries is spot-on.

I actually took the test at http://www.5lovelanguages.com/ and got the absolute truth - my kind of...

LDD, I think you are looking too much on the surface now. First of all, the reason why you cannot get past the small talk is because you are closed. You are thinking too much about what to say and...

The idea of giving your S.O the love you want, but he doesn't need, is told in other books as well, such as Women from Venus, Men from Mars. That is the main problem for many. Thanks, Wakeup, for...

paze, this is something familiar to me.

The thing that she can come by herself, shows that she is not one of the women that does not ever come. That is good news.
However, here is the strange...

smackie9, no, I did not ask, just was comparing other situations I had with guys related to this issue.
One particular guy who was important to me, told me that he thinks that I do not like him so...

Smackie9, that was the reason I posted this thread, because clearly I didn't catch something. Plus I was comparing the guys that I know, and couldn't get to one conclusion.

yes, Wakeup, Those are the things I tell him I appreciate (not in the exact same words). I was thinking that by telling the things I see that are important will make him see that I DO appreciate him...

Yeah, searock, a simple, but completely true answer. So I guess from this, can say that for every person it can be something else.

But can you really fall in love with the "mommy type"?

I have a rather uncommon question to you.

What is important that a woman appreciates in you?

How you like to be seen? What impression you like to leave? Do you like compliments about your...

that are *NOT* from the series "dump his ass" :D

bree5454, I have some different thoughts about your issue, that are from the series "dump his ass".
Anyway that was my first reaction, but then I remembered that I know this situation from my...

Amy90, I believe that seeing some kind of special connection, has let you think that that is the reason it could work.
I can understand that it is difficult to admit it, but in this case, to feel...

What makes You choose one girl over another?
What qualities has a girl that You would make a long term commitment?
What girl You would never want to have as Your girlfriend?

I'm really...

what i would suggest is that You talk with him about your true feelings.. but before think about what u really want from a relationship in general.. what You will put up with and what not, but think...

Thank you for giving me such a good experience. I think you thaught me a lot, which I can only be greatful for. I hope one day we can meet again because I'm a different person now. I like a lot of...

I feel for you, but you have to be strong, going through this is too much I think.. If you stay with him, the chanses are that this woman, their baby and all this drama will follow you or be...

Yes, if he wanted, he would totally find time for u, or if he really didn't have the time.. you would still feel that he really wants to be in touch. He would call you in his break, send a sweet...

Brand1992

you are not in love. Texting is way way different than actually meeting. When you meet you can see the body language toward you, the eyes, movement, action.
Imagine what realtionship...