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Yea firstly, I didn't "tell her" to use a dildo. I just gave my approval if that's the choice she made. So don't put words into my mouth mmkay?

Next, it was completely her choice to use it,...

Listen, knowing things ABOUT him doesn't mean you really know HIM. People tend to gradually expose more of who they really are as the relationship progresses. Some people won't show you the bulk of...

I have to agree with Bigboy, but I'll try to say it in a nicer way. Men, especially young men, tend to be emotionally and communicably lacking. Generally, we don't really read into the conversation...

My wife and I were both virgins going into marriage. I didn't want my honeymoon sex-fest to be painful on her, and slow/frustrating for me, so I told her that if she wanted to use a dildo to get...

Is his lying chronic or is this the first time you've caught him?

If we define "forgive" as letting go of the anger and embitterment towards him, then yes you should forgive. Everyone's human,...

You are right about the friend zone thing. Girls love to get emotional coddling from guys they like, and if they can get close to one and put him into the friend zone then they will do just that. ...

It seems like everyone has a different definition of love, but what is the most important attribute of true love? Is it chemistry, romance, sexual passion, friendship, intense yearning to be with...

I endorse everything Wakeup said. ^ I'm sure he likes you, but he has chosen them. It sucks, and it's painful, and it's going to take some time to accept it. But he has made his choice, and...

You need to understand that there are many reasons that relationships don't work out. It may have nothing to do with you "not being good enough". Of course you aren't perfect, but realize that...

I agree with Bulrush, he's hooked to the things that you can give him: validation, familiarity, companionship, sex, etc. But that doesn't mean he cares about you enough to improve his behavior in...

You actually have this backwards. This comment is only available for girls he DOES NOT love. A guy could make that statement in regards to a number of women, but none of which he truly loves.
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The truth is that men don't need you to be awake, or interested, or in the mood, or even attractive, in order to get their jollies. I'm confused as to what you are worried about here? That you...

As far as your controlling behavior in the past, don't think that it has just gone away. It's easier to keep that kind of behavior under control when the relationship isn't completely established...

Like all relationships, the best thing that will help it to develop is putting the focus on HER well-being and HER happiness. You are 18 and going off to school soon, God knows whats going to happen...

I don't think you are a drama addict. If you were, you probably wouldn't be posting on this issue, but content to bask in your current drama.

This is a classic case of emotional abuse. Abuse...

Firstly, the "no contact rule" isn't about being spiteful or hurting her. It's simply the right decision to make for both of you. If you keep in touch with her, you will be in absolute agony and...

My only thought is that you need to make sure you don't make more of this than it is. You haven't even gone out yet. You can only get so far down the relationship pathway from texting. In...

You need to be brave, man. It's obvious that she cares about you, but that is no where near enough to create a successful relationship. For whatever reason, she doesn't feel for you what she needs...

The real question here is: why do you find yourself attracted to girls who are problematic and who will obviously lead you to immense pain? There are many girls out there who are entirely single,...

Stop thinking about what you should do, and start figuring out what you really want. You are like Alice in Wonderland who asks the Cheshire Cat "which way should I go?" And his answer is "that...

You care about him and enjoy being with him. He enjoys being with you and loves having sex with a young and attractive girl. But so far, there is nothing between you two that points to a healthy...

You need to bring it up. If it's kind of getting to you then you definately have to bring it up or it will fester and cause friction. Talk about your long term plans: are you looking for something...

Listen carefully my friend...

The reason you had a "falling out" eight months ago, is because she wanted to continue using you as her security blanket, while she pursued the acceptance and...