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My poor ego is so damaged by all this believe me! I think if it was in better shape I wouldn't be pining for him at all anymore! Yes he is getting to be old news and I fully accept that it just ain't...

And on many levels I have accepted it's over. Realistically we will never be back together for many reasons not least I would never trust him again. But my heart is still holding out some sort of...

Hi love forum buddies :)
I'm only on for a bit of a moan so please forgive me lol! I've been doing really well with the whole nc thing, haven't even been remotely tempted to break it at any time...

Defo cut contact.

I have absolutely no idea how many days nc I am at now and can't be bothered working it out either. What's the point? I intend to keep it up indefinitely, possibly forever so what's the point in...

I think I have been a little misunderstood! I am actually quite happy with my body shape and general appearance. I was just upset that my ex felt it necessary to describe his "type" to me and it...

In actual fact the media has nothing to do with it in my case! It's two real men who have expressed these desires. I was quite happy with myself and don't even attempt to live up to media ideals....

first of all that's an incredibly sweet thing to
say about ur wife, lucky lady! Hope she knows that's what u think
:)

yes I guess it is just insecurity. I'm ok looking, probably above average...

I've "punched out" a couple of kids and have been told I'm a MILF lol. I'm in my mid 30's and in pretty good shape. A guy I know was telling me about a male friend of his who purposefully seeks out...

I ask this question because this issue has raised it's head a couple of times this year for me.... On both occasions the men concerned have expressed a preference for women who are physically nothing...

Petit Papillion I hope you are going to aologise for that terribly hurtful and judgemental post. Really uncalled for and unnecessary!! :(

Don't be pulled into the viscous circle of will he contact me or won't he, what did that text/ email really mean, should I reply or ignore blah blah blah. All it'll do is mess with your head and...

I actually have to count on my fingers to work out how many days nc there have been now! Good sign I think. 15 days since we last had a two way conversation. Ok so he emailed me 7 days ago but seeing...

Emmalina
I've been where you are and empathise totally. I too thought I'd met my missing puzzle piece. But the thing is if they were our The Ones then we would be with them now, plain and simple....

Day 12!! :) and no time goal set, just as long as it takes for me to get over him :)

It is ridiculous the games people play at times. My ex's issue was being on own, he just can't be single. His best mate alluded this fact to me. He is a big child who needs adoration. I'm sure that...

Women move on no more easily than men do. It's their way of surviving and moving forward. I personally think men r more likely than women to jump both feet into
a new relationship. Women are...

Hi
thanks for ur post RedMagnum. Hand on my heart I've had no such conversation with my ex lol!! He is the one who compliments me on my appearance and asks me personal questions. Since we split i...

ah sorry! Good for u! Yay! :)

Go you! Glad ur out enjoying urself :) Defo don't contact ur ex!!! Bad move and would backfire for sure. Will make u look a bit pathetic when u r definitely not! :)

on the contrary it's all UP HILL! Have a little faith I yourself, no one needs another person to function and be happy! Yes it's hard getting into the mindset of accepting it's now over but the...

Senokotmax...... Again?? Be stronger! You'll feel better if u manage it, take it from one who knows :) You want your ex to take you seriously after all. Have you sent a nc message or are u just...

The only thing I know with certainty is that he is scared of losing me as a his friend though in truth he lost me a long time ago. He has been used to me being his confidante and his fixer. Kind of...

Day ten and alls well :)
Have booked my summer holiday, so excited to get away to the sun and no hassles from home :)

I've done a lot of thinking on the same subject and have even foolishly bought a couple of ebooks on the subject (good advice but over priced, I'm a sucker!!). Even the so called relationship experts...