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    Is he too busy or just not interested

    Hi All!

    I was hoping to get some feedback and advice on this silly situation I am in.

    Three months ago I went on a couple of dates with a lovely man, who was kind of perfect. I was just freshly...
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    I'd like to agree with TheEvilJester, spreading...

    I'd like to agree with TheEvilJester, spreading wisdom as usual.

    I am an insecure and anxious person too, so to some extent I think I can understand how you are feeling. Relationships are hard,...
  3. TheEvilJester , always a real pleasure to hear...

    TheEvilJester , always a real pleasure to hear from you. Thank you for your tact and empathy in answering my doubts.

    You know, as I read your entry I remembered something he said on one of our...
  4. By the way, I discovered he still talks to one of...

    By the way, I discovered he still talks to one of his exes and I didn't ask more questions - which I feel pretty stupid about now.

    Apparently he was telling her about his life (stuff he was...
  5. LOL your answer cracked me up! I'm fairly sure...

    LOL your answer cracked me up!

    I'm fairly sure he's speaking the truth. He's a gorgeous 6'4" man with a very successful job and a great personality and I see how women look at him, but also he has...
  6. I actually casually asked "Hey, is that picture...

    I actually casually asked "Hey, is that picture of someone that you know or just off the internet?"

    And he answered "Oh it's someone that I used to know"

    Ehmmmmmm


    _Honestly, he's a great...
  7. He still has stuff from his ex around - red flag or deal-breaker?

    So, I've been seeing a guy for 2 months now. Really great guy, and we have a lot of fun together.

    I was feeling very "comfortable" because he put a lot of effort into dating me. I left the city...
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    Hi CantMoveOn and EvilJester, thank you for...

    Hi CantMoveOn and EvilJester,

    thank you for your answers.

    I guess that underneath it all I was hoping there was some kind of magical way of doing this without having to do anything at all haha....
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    How to make the first move - as a girl

    So, this is a very open-ended question.

    I've been wondering about this for a while.

    As a single gal in NYC I see my fair share of cute guys around (on the subway, at bars, at the gym, on walks...
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    I can't imagine being in a relationship or...

    I can't imagine being in a relationship or anything with someone I haven't even met yet.

    And the Dick Pic thing is a total turnoff for me too... I just don't get why he would send it! Which is...
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    Shockingly

    He's actually a white, Oxford-educated half Brit half South-African.

    Someone must not have explained to him that dick pics make poor props for epistulary relationships...

    but hey maybe I found...
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    So, just wanted to follow this up with the...

    So, just wanted to follow this up with the solution.

    at some point a week or so ago I texted him that he seems great but the distance made this too difficult and that I wanted something healthier....
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    What does he want?

    So, I have a situation I'm curious to hear your thoughts about.

    I matched with a guy on an app and we started chatting. The conversation flowed and from the pictures I thought he was very...
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    Hey TheEvilJester , thank you for sending. ...

    Hey TheEvilJester ,

    thank you for sending.

    Little update; I pressed the guy a little further and in the end he said something along the lines of not wanting to waste my time because he might...
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    Haha I actually held myself in quite a lot. Yes,...

    Haha I actually held myself in quite a lot. Yes, I was mad though, I admit it. I find it childish to ask someone out and then disappear, and I will call anyone out on that, I'm not afraid. By the end...
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    So I figured I would keep you guys posted because...

    So I figured I would keep you guys posted because this whole situation is just weird -at best- and frustrating at worst.

    Texting conversation with said guy goes as such:

    Friday at 10:50 AM: Hey...
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    So after ignoring his texts from yesterday night...

    So after ignoring his texts from yesterday night I finally received one from him asking if we could meet up this weekend. I'll keep you posted if we actually get to go on that damn second date!...
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    But if he said he would drop me a line about...

    But if he said he would drop me a line about setting up our next date, shouldn't I supposedly let him do just that?

    I did send him a text last night saying that I was at a very cool rooftop lounge...
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    how to get a second date

    So I'm fairly new to dating, as I got out of a big relationship in September, and have been on a few relaxed but not so exciting dates so far. Absolutely nothing wrong with the guys, in fact quite...
  20. Hi Hooo! Funny how these things go... I was...

    Hi Hooo!

    Funny how these things go... I was hoping against hope that you'd say something along the lines of: "maybe you can give it another try again in the future... hang in there." But then...
  21. I don't know how to get over him - please help

    Hi everyone, I'm looking for some uplifting because I think most of my friends and family are just exhausted by me by now

    I have written about this in earlier posts, I guess this is a followup.
    ...
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    Hmmm maybe I did a poor job explaining myself......

    Hmmm maybe I did a poor job explaining myself...

    He was indeed very critical and moody, but mostly angry. Small things would piss him off so much the knuckles in his fists would go white and he...
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    Am I a toxic person?

    Sometimes I wonder if I am a bad person for other to be around.

    It would explain a lot of things about my love relationships actually. I'm not trying to start a pity party, I am just trying to...
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    amberXnight, I get that you are a more reserved...

    amberXnight, I get that you are a more reserved person and that you don't like to pry -though you kind of did when you looked into his stuff, right?

    Look, no judgement here, since when somebody is...
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    I don't have that much experience on the matter...

    I don't have that much experience on the matter either tbh.

    I guess it comes down to the whole "can I expect change from the person I'm in a relationship with or should I just learn to accept...
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