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First off, I wanted to say that before this relationship, I was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who repeatedly cheated on me, and continued to do so despite confessing to me and promising never...

Did you not read what you quoted? A Dr. did prescribe it. It's the very same Dr. she goes to see for this. The Dr. specifically told me when I went to get retested that if my partner was reinfected I...

Thanks for the advice. When I went for the retest, I told the situation and the Dr. advised me to have both of us take anti biotics (but she was referring to the neighborgirl, not my ex). Of course,...

We used condoms for awhile (my ex and I) when we first got together and still do, we just don't use them right away at the beginning. As for the neighborgirl, she's very young and told me she was...

This situation involves me and 2 girls. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and neither of us has been tested for STD's.

Eventually I broke up with my girlfriend and got...

Thank you for the kind words. Experience is valuable - you're right. It's a lot more helpful to view the time as past as a learning experience.

Even if I am depressed, in a clinical term, I don't...

Hello everyone, I made this thread (http://www.loveforum.net/threads/77783-High-school-sweetheart-relationship-of-4-years-ended-having-difficulty-moving-on/) well over a year ago. A quick summary: I...

Thank you (and smackie9). I thought it was going to be the end of B when I blocked her, but it's not the end and this isn't the easy part.

B is claiming that she meant to get back with me because...

It was a little awkward, but I asked her. It did require me to follow her lead, and I didn't even make it to the canoe trip tomorrow to ask her out. I took her to the movies earlier this night and...

That cheating stuff is out of my system and I'm definitely going to try my best to keep this relationship going. And I never know when the time is right. :P I feel like perhaps sooner would be better...

Like I said, it's a small part of me, purely rooted in the pain felt from the relationship. I don't believe in karma but I believe in integrity and being good people (even to those who might not...

Hey, I loved that song growing up, didn't know the lyrics specifically pertained to this :P

Anyways, my last visit with B was more of the same. She first says she wants to talk. I get there and...

I enjoy coming here (very nice people and all), but I don't really have much experience to offer, just a bitter viewpoint on my experience with women. This is pretty much my only outlet of...

You people make it sound like just by living my life the best I can, women will come with it. But my 21 years of experience on this planet is testament to the exact OPPOSITE of that. I know people...

Just to even see a doctor to even have that discussion, I fear would be pretty expensive for me (having no insurance). I've never had health insurance and haven't been to a doctor in years, and have...

I don't know if I can convince myself to spend the time and money on counseling. Or if I know where to look for it. For the past weeks I keep telling myself "if she contacts me, I'm going to tell her...

I did it for awhile, but I can't do it anymore. I don't know what she wants, but it isn't me. We'd still sleep together once a week on average (I'd sleep over at her place). Apparently she has a...

I'm still letting go every day. It's impossible for me to go cold-turkey though like I previously attempted. I've accepted that this woman shouldn't be my love interest any more, but I'll still take...

Michelle, this thread is basically the piece of paper where I write down how I feel to make myself feel better :). Please don't get the impression that I'm not attempting to heed all of your advice -...

Hello, I'm posting in this thread because I'm just feeling down. I've made a lot of progress getting over the relationship, but I'm facing great difficulty. First off, I want to mention that I've...

You're completely right. I'm done forgiving her actions. I wish I was done being sad about it, but that's something I'm still working on. Irregardless, I'm at a point where I haven't been before - I...

That's exactly it. She doesn't have any respect for me or empathy of my feelings. There's nothing I can do at this point to put this relationship back to where it is, even if it was a delusional...

I already have male friends, it just makes me more comfortable to have female ones as well. Interacting with guy friends is different than female friends. My guy friends seem far removed from reality...

At this point I feel like it's hard to communicate with her. She's talking to me as if we haven't been together for 4 years, but as if we're starting fresh or something. She said she wants to "ease...

Thank you. I've never experienced any form of counseling and maybe at some point I can convince B to do it. I have a question regarding boundaries - If B is adamant about having male friends, then I...