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Thank you both for your input. It's just really hard to let go when you know you're the one who is causing all of the fights with your pickiness.



I'm seeing someone about my OCD tendencies,...

If you just own it and present it as something you find pretty gosh darn cool about yourself, then she will most likely be fine with it. Webbed toes are hardly anything to be ashamed of!

I'm having an interesting issue in my relationship, and it has left me clueless :detective

It's about my girlfriend, we've had a rocky relationship for almost a year now. We had a honey moon stage...

You've got to be strong for you child who would never want their mommy to languish in uncertainty and broken heartedness for years and years and years.

This guy clearly doesn't deserve you if he...

Although I like to believe that sex isn't EVERYTHING, it does count for a lot in a relationship.

If you can't even turn her on enough to get her to have sex with you more than 10 times every 2...

Girl, you need to have a little more respect for yourself!

When a couple actually makes the switch to living together, breaking up and moving on becomes somewhat of an insurmountable task. It...

I don't mean any disrespect but she sounds super annoying. Maybe it's just the brief way you've portrayed her, or maybe I just hate texting just as much as you do.

Anyway, all technological...

Well it certainly seems like there is definite chemistry between you and "Jane". It is usually a good rule of thumb not to go backwards in the dating world, but hey the heart wants what the heart...

Well first of all, people come here to get different perspectives and honesty, not to get a verbal lashing for USING the site for what it is intended. So I can do without your harsh language. I never...

She's no good. You were probably attracted to her from the beginning in a big way because you couldn't have her. She was attracted to you (I'm sure for a few reasons, I bet you're great and all)...

She's either just looking for a certain kind of attention from you, or she just really thinks that you are too good for her. She may have extremely low self esteem, or she may have dated a bunch of...

I'm graduating college in May and for the past year have seriously considered trying to become a military officer after graduation. I've always seen myself someday entering the military, and now with...

What you are doing wrong is simple, you're just digging yourself a deeper hole, and a deeper excuse as to why you are an unsuccessful "dater". Read up about self fulfilling prophecies- a quick google...

Well to be quite honest I think you've done all you can for right now. The most important thing is that you don't shower her with too much "I really like you" talk when you come home from your trip....

Before I get started I just want to say that if you think I'm being a total dick please do not hesitate to tell me!

Ok so here it goes. My girlfriend who I've been seeing for awhile has...

The main problem that you are running into here (or so it seems) is that you lack common interests. During the dating game we never really seem to think those things through and then after the...

Call it what you will, it was perceived as a way to criticize the users of this site. Just saying, it was how I saw it and I certainly didn't come here to feel bad about asking for advice. I did...

You cannot control how you feel. Your body is telling you that you obviously cannot forgive her. If you have suddenly just began thinking about the 4 year old events and they are giving you trouble I...

Your boyfriend sounds like an ass (no offense to you).

Apparently you cannot be open with him about serious matters. There is nothing wrong with watching porn, I am of the belief that just about...

Thank you all for your thoughts.



I appreciated your first post but could do without the harsh criticism. There is a difference between being brutally honest and just trying to hurt people's...

To be brutally honest with you, she might not want to even meet up casually. In her mind, she sees you as someone she briefly dated, and as someone who is not a good fit for her. Being that you met...

Ok first thing's first, you need to let your ex-FWB know that you are not interested in having a relationship with her. It's only right! She's clearly pining away for you, hoping that some day she'll...

First of all, I have to admit that I NEVER respond to "thank you" texts. It's just awkward, but that is just me! Anyway, I definitely think that you should wait until the semester is over to ask her...

My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly a year now. After that whole "honey moon" stage which lasted about 3-4 months, I started noticing some behavior that bothered me, such as her...

I agree with what smackie9 said, "You have put this girl up on a pedestal". You really have elevated her *greatness* to a new level, out of missing her and not letting YOURSELF get over her. Dreams...