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    Gees I must have been lucky, my first time didn't...

    Gees I must have been lucky, my first time didn't hurt. As far as first times go, I'd say it was pretty good. As for your gf... a few minutes foreplay... I'd think you'd need more than that, make...
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    It's kinda a hard one to call. If you're...

    It's kinda a hard one to call. If you're interested in her, maybe see if she wants to spend some time together outside of work. See if she gives you attention in that scenario - or if you get the...
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    I was actually in the reverse in 1 situation. I...

    I was actually in the reverse in 1 situation. I was (and years later still am) friends with an ex. It was long distance, didn't work out, we both met other people, but stayed friends. I was...
  4. Agree 100%. I only met 1 of my ex's on a night...

    Agree 100%. I only met 1 of my ex's on a night out, but neither of us were drunk. I didn't have as much in common with him as with other guys. I'm actually surprised we lasted as long as we did. ...
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    The guy I'm with now... when I first met him, I...

    The guy I'm with now... when I first met him, I didn't think he was attractive - as in I didn't look at him and think, wow, he's hot. We got on well as friends, then things progressed. Honestly, it...
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    I've had boyfriends who always did the good night...

    I've had boyfriends who always did the good night / sweet dreams texts every night. But the guy I'm with now doesn't, which is actually totally fine with me. If anything, if you get used getting...
  7. I've never been a fan of drunken sleazes hitting...

    I've never been a fan of drunken sleazes hitting on me on a night on. When I'm in a relationship, I really don't appreciate guys trying to chat me up. One night a guy continued to try to chat me up...
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    I'm gonna repeat what my guy's said about blow...

    I'm gonna repeat what my guy's said about blow jobs... if you're just doing it because you think it will please your guy, don't bother. Do it if you enjoy it. I understand where he's coming from...
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    Summed up pretty well! So I'm not gonna repeat...

    Summed up pretty well! So I'm not gonna repeat it. I prefer the real thing, but it's a handy alternative. Clearly you're not with your girlfriend all the time, so sometimes she can't just ask for...
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    My guy & I are actually pretty open about that......

    My guy & I are actually pretty open about that... I honestly don't have any issues about him masturbating. And he doesn't have any about me... I think it's a turn on that I am open about it with him.
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    That sounds like my guy... and to be honest, I...

    That sounds like my guy... and to be honest, I love it. Believe me, big improvement on an ex who didn't like it, and wasn't very good at it. I suppose he only tried it sometimes cause he knew I...
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    I dated a guy 2 and half years younger......

    I dated a guy 2 and half years younger... surprised it lasted as long as it did. He needed to do a lot of growing up. Fairly recently I had a guy 5 years younger make a pass at me... and he didn't...
  13. Generally my idea is an ex is an ex for a reason,...

    Generally my idea is an ex is an ex for a reason, and I don't do the friendship thing. But I have an exception to that rule - long distance relationship which he couldn't handle, even though...
  14. I'll tell you what the biggest turn off about you...

    I'll tell you what the biggest turn off about you is - your used material line. I'm not a virgin. But I haven't slept around, I will never sleep with a guy early on in our relationship. I find...
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    With one of my ex's, we'd a really good...

    With one of my ex's, we'd a really good relationship, then one day he ended it very suddenly. He did the whole "let's be friends" thing, which I tried. In the hope that things would sort themselves...
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    I'd try bringing up the subject again - ask him...

    I'd try bringing up the subject again - ask him what kinda time frame he thinks is ok? Or suggest taking things a little further, but agree boundaries perhaps.
    Is it a deal breaker if nothing more...
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    Swallow your male pride. Does your wife not like...

    Swallow your male pride. Does your wife not like oral sex in general? If she does like it, she'll know what she'd like you to be doing. Tell her you want to be able to please her orally and ask...
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    No, you're not abnormal, and don't listen to...

    No, you're not abnormal, and don't listen to people who tell you that you are. There's a lot of pressure on everyone to have sex at quite a young age, or early on in a relationship. But you have to...
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    You could be saying it too soon into the...

    You could be saying it too soon into the relationship.

    It's not necessarily that the girl doesn't feel the same way, you could just have caught her off guard, surprised her. I know when 1 of my...
  20. I'd actually be inclined to say that she does...

    I'd actually be inclined to say that she does want you to respond.
    BUT if I were in your shoes I wouldn't. She's an ex for a reason, there's a reason why you stopped contact with her & haven't...
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    Every girl is different... one might be playing...

    Every girl is different... one might be playing hard to get, one might be looking for an excuse to let you down gently, one might not be sure how she feels and does need a little time to think about...
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    You should be honest with your girlfriend - I'm a...

    You should be honest with your girlfriend - I'm a firm believer that a relationship should be based on trust & honesty. You're not being honest with her, and it sounds like she doesn't trust you. ...
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    Any recommendations?

    My guy likes the idea of giving me a massage, which I'm totally on for. But looking for any recommendations about good, sensual massage oils that we could use. Preferably something that isn't gonna...
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