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    Yes. Let him contact you, but don't wait on him...

    Yes. Let him contact you, but don't wait on him to do anything.

    If he's cutting you out of his sphere of communication, then that means he no longer wishes to put in the time to keep your...
  2. Thank you, Hooo! for reading and condensing that...

    Thank you, Hooo! for reading and condensing that wall of font.
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    It's possible--it's that you're not prepared to...

    It's possible--it's that you're not prepared to put your money where your mouth is.

    You can go there and stay for up to 6 months on your visa. Instead of paying for college this semester, spend...
  4. Out of all the choices you have in the world, the...

    Out of all the choices you have in the world, the only one that's not got the potential to end up becoming a viral video where you get dragged for filth and mean memes attached to your likeness...
  5. You're a rebound. Sorry. It has nothing to do...

    You're a rebound. Sorry. It has nothing to do with what treatment he's giving you.



    That's nothing to gloat about. The way this reads, up until 14 days ago (out of your 7 months), he's...
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    If this man was your husband and some woman wrote...

    If this man was your husband and some woman wrote exactly what you wrote here, what would you, as his wife, was us to tell her?
  7. You can't. He's a grown man. He's going to see...

    You can't. He's a grown man. He's going to see things exactly the way he wants to see things.

    What you can do is to not be around someone who treats people like this. That's about all that's left...
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    Happiness is found inside yourself, not with...

    Happiness is found inside yourself, not with someone else who has their own right to self determination.

    So, knowing that she isn't interested in getting back with you, what are you prepared to do...
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    He's hurting you by not doing a better job of...

    He's hurting you by not doing a better job of managing his time--and perhaps his job isn't allowing him to do this. If that is the case, then he shouldn't be in any relationships because by...
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    Because you want more than friendship with him...

    Because you want more than friendship with him and now that avenue is closed---but you stood in your truth and took the buttwhippin' for it, which is always better than living a lie.



    As you...
  11. If you have apple podcasts, listen to "Break up...

    If you have apple podcasts, listen to "Break up Boost"... if you can stand the chick's whiny voice, she talks a lot of good sense.. but that voice...
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    The simple answer is because his wife allows him...

    The simple answer is because his wife allows him to come back because, legally, she's his wife and they have 20+ years of mutual interests there that are recognized by the state that he's not going...
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    What a coincidence! So have I!!! So have most...

    What a coincidence! So have I!!! So have most people!!

    I've never had a man die on me as a way of ending my relationship, so...

    I vote for just living your life and making it way more...
  14. I'm not married, but I couldn't lay in a bed...

    I'm not married, but I couldn't lay in a bed every night with a man knowing he's carrying on an emotional affair and pining for someone else, but he's just settling with me because he can't arse...
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    The only thing that I can think of is that you...

    The only thing that I can think of is that you probably don't give off the air of being approachable, so that's why men don't approach. Also, if you're trying too hard and bring a boatload of...
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    Give him a call and see what he's up to--if he...

    Give him a call and see what he's up to--if he wants to grab a quick bite and visit.

    He may be thinking the exact same about you--that you're not that interested since you haven't contacted him...
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    If you were his wife of 20+ years with 3...

    If you were his wife of 20+ years with 3 children, one of them being a special needs child with health issues and some 23 year old woman who was having an illicit affair with her 41 year old husband...
  18. Derrick Jaxn talked about this on his live IG...

    Derrick Jaxn talked about this on his live IG feed the other day.

    Simple reason? When he met you, he was on the outs with his girlfriend and decided to go hit up someone new--that person...
  19. All you can do is to fall back and leave him...

    All you can do is to fall back and leave him alone. He's pretty much made that loud and clear from what you've written.

    You move on by moving on--you really have no choice. If you keep trying to...
  20. Don't do it. The conversation isn't going to go...

    Don't do it. The conversation isn't going to go the way you're envisioning it.

    The moment to have had that conversation sailed when you said "yeah, that's it".
  21. There's a saying: lay down with dogs, wake up...

    There's a saying: lay down with dogs, wake up with fleas.

    Deal with a liar and you never can trust that anything out of their mouths is the truth.

    This chick lies as naturally as drawing...
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    It says that there is still a life lesson that...

    It says that there is still a life lesson that you're refusing to learn, so the same character in different bodies keeps showing up until you figure out how you're supposed to deal with these sorts.
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    No. You are not wrong. Your boyfriend is...

    No. You are not wrong.

    Your boyfriend is abusive. Full stop. This is how they operate. The turn on you then afterwards, they're all sweet, asking forgiveness, crying, etc., to get back their...
  24. She's way too preoccupied with this supposed ex...

    She's way too preoccupied with this supposed ex of hers to be 100% available and present for anything---even friendship. I seriously doubt that what they have is a relationship more than it is a...
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    Even if it was BS, they haven't met. This is all...

    Even if it was BS, they haven't met. This is all a texting adventure with emojis. There has been no investment that has to be honored here.
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