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I understand completely what you're saying.
Thank you for the luck and your guys' opinions, because... IT WORKED. She loved the message and is interested in meeting with me soon...

I'm...

Yea, exactly what I was thinking. As long as it's honest and too the point, she'll get why I'm using FB since it's my only resort

p.s. your sig's hilarious!

Yeah, I used a similar rule of just going for it before, and it's worked for me many times. it wasn't that I was too afraid to talk to her, I just completely shut out the option and after a previous...

There's this girl that was in one of my classes but I never talked to her in class because I was kind focused on studies this last semester and getting over something that didn't work out. During...

because beating people proves something. no actually it doesn't, just that you can inflict pain because you don't know how to deal with life, only to hate. I can't imagine why you'd take every little...

Just replying back what's up: secured a date for next weekend, probably gonna do something more engaging like bowling (that way the conversation will flow easier with an activity to take the focus...

I was only asking if it's too soon man, chill out. I know I'm over-analyzing but I've no experience, that's why I started the thread in the first place. simply wanted to know if it was too early,...

well yeah, I guess I'm dragging my feet. would this weekend be too soon (like Saturday evening, which is tomorrow)?

Whoops almost forgot to respond here—I had the coffee date yesterday (Thursday), I think it went decent.. paid for her coffee then we talked for about an hour & 15. I tend not be a very talkative...

hey I'm just saying what's the point in living if all you're ever gonna do is talk shit to people. You don't need to have a "unicorns and rainbows" attitude to not do that. The world's not black &...

If you say you are, that's all that matters. I just take it that when someone has a shitty attitude, they aren't. Earlier in this thread you stated "This is why I give up on the human race, if...

Calm down my friend, there's no need for sarcastic assholism. We're only discussing relationships here, this being a love forum.

Yes and no-it's not necessarily romantic. Though those are first...

Not really, coffee's a precursor to a date. it's like testing the waters to see if a date's even worth having. it'd be one thing if I actually thought she had a bf, but as I stated earlier, a week...

Yea I get you. I wouldn't base things alone on astrology signs, it was just interesting to find out; especially that our decans are the same (I'm a pisces with moon/cancer decan, she's a cancer with...

Yeah, I know that. But first off, I overheard in class she that she's with a guy she's not concerned with going to the next level, they might not even be actual boyfriend & girlfriend. She might've...

First off, thanks for the advice I got in my first thread: http://www.loveforum.net/threads/86904-How-to-approach-her

Edit- I realize I babbled on quite a bit below, so I made a quick summary here...

Well, Thursday class ended up being the same as usual...

Instead of trying to wait for her after class, I think I might try grabbing a seat next to her in class and just talk to her like any...

Not really, but I guess I didn't mention the context in which I smiled at her. Most of the class was laughing because of something the teacher said so I glanced her way during this with a smile on my...

Not looking for a manual, only curious my friend, but I getcha

Yep, I gave just as many gazes back, locked eyes, and a couple times smiled. I'd say I have a pretty sunny position too, so I know I'll have a good smile going when I go to ask her out

ok so it's safe to say it goes both ways? depends on the girl?

gotcha, so you didn't actually have to ask that her to be your gf. good to hear. funny how internet articles out there say the opposite yet what people actually do is different.

well, today was a repeat of yesterday, she was staring my way and making direct eye contact for 2 1/2 hours, even though she sits in front me. only thing is she seems to stay after class for awhile,...

great to hear, that makes perfect sense. definitely seems like it'd be more a flower blossoming than a butterfly popping outta a cocoon after popping the question, if that comparison makes any sense

I get you. I'll play it out when the time comes and see whether the conversation should come up or not. thanks basil

Any youngians like myself not had to actually ask a girl to be a gf, and let...