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Hey all :) I need help deciphering the actions of one of my female friends. We first met about 8 months ago, and have been going out once a week as part of a small group of friends. I'll just say...

This has gone on way too long. Actualgoodguy, you have seriously malformed conceptions of love, sex, trust, and how they interrelate. You need to recognize that these are the problem, and stop trying...

A lot of what Behrendt said is utter bs. There are plenty of reasons why guys don't ask a girl out even when they're extremely attracted to them; for this guy to just dismiss them, and characterize...

You just need to be more forward. Otherwise, especially if she's very quiet, nothing's ever going to happen. Make an effort to talk to her practically whenever you see her, and if that goes well for...

Nah you need better boundaries. It's completely understandable that you won't be able / won't want to text her at times, she just needs to get used to that. As long as there's not an extended break...

Yeah...the girl I'm currently seeing, I like her a lot but not enough (or in the right way) to build a serious relationship. I'm not sure if she feels the same way, but she definitely thinks that I...

Honestly you sound exactly like me a year or so ago. Some things for you to think about:

-Be funny be funny. People like funny. Small-talk is best used as a means to get information which you can...

I'm sorry, that's just a really bad situation to be in. If you really can't get together enough to make a relationship work then you just have to try to move past him, unless you're planning on going...

Exactly. From your point of view it sounds like it was completely her fault. You need to just tell her everything you've told us.

Oh my gosh. Okay, he obviously does like you. If a guy does what you mentioned then he's into you, no matter what else he does. Like you said, you haven't talked to him or acted normally around him...

If one more person asks if I might be gay....

Anyway I was just looking through this forum and the boyfriend in this thread: (...

Lol these replies are going downhill :/ Only thing worth answering is michelle's: she's cute / pretty rather than sexy because I don't get that aroused looking at her, I mostly get warm or...

Heya everyone. I've slept with the girl I'm currently seeing a couple of times, by which I mean, we've been in the same bed and up all night, but never managed to actually make it to sex. We just...

Heya. First of all, I understand a lot of what you're feeling. I'm not as different as you think you are, but I'm pretty shy so even though people are happy talking with me and laughing at my jokes...

Actually I disagree with Michelle on this. It honestly sounds like he changed his mind about you, which sounds pretty bad, but can definitely happen. One scenario is that he had a crush on someone...

Okay, good, from what you've said there's a pretty good chance that he does like you. So go ahead and ask him out! (since he's shy too, this is an even better idea) Just make sure you smile properly...

Hey chr1sm, don't be upset, she likes you a lot. Make it clear to her that you like her back, and most likely you can pick right up where you left off in the week before school restarts.

Update time! Not much has really changed. Girl A is back from holiday, I saw her a couple of nights ago and it was really nice. Basically we had a great time, but within a day I'm feeling bored with...

Tricky one, a lot depends on the way that he said he didn't like you. If he did it seriously, most likely in a private conversation with you, then he was telling the truth and probably still isn't...

Yeah, he just lost interest when you couldn't meet up. I should say that if you deliberately ignore him for a month you can't expect the relationship to go anywhere, even (or especially) if you're...

Okay, you are analysing those little things he's doing way too much. They might mean something, but they might mean something completely different, or nothing at all. Obsessing over them really isn't...

Hmmm...pretty much every decent guy who was even joking and flirting with you "as friends" would answer your texts and not just suddenly turn off you. One thing it could be is that texting isn't a...

Hi dand. IF YOU'RE GOING TO WRITE THAT MUCH, USE PARAGRAPH BREAKS!

Anyway. I'm in a sort of similar situation and I agree that it's really hard (and there aren't any easy answers). What I'd...

Hi :) I really don't think you have a problem here. I can say for certain that he's extremely into you; his behaviour which you think is "cold" is much more likely to be just accidental or due to...

What you absolutely SHOULDN'T do is contact her on Facebook out of the blue. If you've never met, she will probably ignore you (and she should, because what you'd be doing would honestly seem pretty...