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Now that's not the right attitude. if you don't have any confidence in yourself, you will never get ahead in life.

Give it some time. Pretend that it didn't happen and stop looking at her. let her chase you down.

She have roommates? maybe she doesn't want anyone to know she is talking to you again. I agree you should just ask her out. If she doesn't accept or gives you the run around, block/delete her number.

Talk to her, she is just a girl....

Girls like her like being chased so this is what you do.....go up to her quickly with a strong swagger, and say something outlandish like "You like me and you know it!" or something funny like "You...

You are overthinking..............she is just a flatmate...you are totally friend zoned.

This is something that should have been discussed before you two became exclusive. It's called relationship expectations and setting boundaries. 9 months in is going to be tough to bring up.

IMO...

Means she is contemplating breaking up with you, or is working up the courage to do so.

You want him? Then you tell him he needs to choose because what is going on right now is you two having an emotional affair...yes he is cheating with you behind his GF's back. Think about it...if...

You work with her? How about just asking her out on a date, like getting coffee sometime or go for lunch. That is how she will know you are interested in her romantically. You don't have to make this...

I think this moral stuff is an excuse to hide the fact you have real anxiety about sex and how you are able to perform.

The normal progression is for you to make a move because girls EXPECT the...

This relationship was never working for you, he doesn't fulfill your expectations, you can't make him love you better, nor will he ever improve. Never ever let a relationship or a man defy who you...

TBH I feel he really likes you but is on the fence about it for whatever reason.

No point in dwelling on it, just move on.

Just bump into him, apologize with a cute smile, then introduce yourself. Hopefully that will start a conversation. If the conversation goes silent, cheerfully ask him a question about himself, be...

Go for it! You worked so hard to get yourself back to life...you are in a good place now, it's time to welcome a new love.

Sorry but you were a rebound. She used you to escape the pain and loneliness.....all you were was for her was a way to get through the grieving process. Now it has past and she realizes she really...

Huh, you are right, you DO have codependency issues. You deserve someone better than this. He has too many things wrong with him...things you cannot fix, things that bring you down, make your self...

You should take a break......a breakup. Nothing worse than being sexually incompatible. I agree with the above post, you don't want to be stuck in a relationship of frustration and resentment. You...

Who knows....just be glad you said no to him. He is sketchy.

When people do a 180, it means someone else is pulling their interest in the other direction, making them unsure of the relationship and their feelings for you. He is downplaying or diverting you...

I hate to say this but all you are is a rebound/escape/emotional tampon, to her. She gets her emotional fix, then she runs because she feels guilty for doing it....kind of like someone with an eating...

She's scared of getting hurt, so when things get too good, she has an anxiety attack and backs off. She just finds reason to justify it. This is why she is still single. I doubt you could ever...

I think your problem is you are not confident enough to hold her attention. You are more stand offish not wanting to make an effort to talk to her one on one....texting is for cowards. Your texts has...

Just be happy she noticed you.....that is a good thing.

How you are feeling? it's reality smacking you in the face. She is emotionally unavailable, because she still loves her ex despite the infidelity. You are just a rebound/stepping stone while she...