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Hi, I think you really need to ask her up front about things, or forget about it and move on.

It would seem odd to me that she would be trying it with a previous ex, and also giving mixed messages...

Hi there,

It doesn't seem like she is interested. However maybe she is playing hard to get/wants some wooing,,?

I would either, be upfront, tell her your feelings and ask her how she feels in...

Hey, apologies if this post is slightly long, I will try to just point out factors which I think are important.

Me and Joel have been together for three years now, and are living together.
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