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Make sure that communication happens, and that it happens BEFORE you get into the scene. Also make sure you explore your feelings on this new form of play, and don't ignore them. If you like it,...

Hey, it's cool. We're not the ones invested in this relationship; we're just armchair quarterbacks tossing out our opinions.



Holy...seven years. Damn, I missed that part.

All I can say is,...

Some colleges are super-strict on, like, everything. Some of them forbid PDA, won't allow their students to date, etc. It's pretty scary.

Yeah, that's possible too. Relationships where one partner is clinging to the other are almost never healthy.

WTF, man. You posted here, seeking advice, and now this?

I was just thinking the same thing. Maybe she's bipolar and needs to have someone take a look at it.

Dump her. Now. And when she screams at you and possibly threatens you, use her response to remind yourself that you definitely did the right thing.

Enjoy hurting someone? Hell no, to a fault. My last relationship I stayed in too long because of this.

I really wish there were an easier way to go at it thank breakups, but sometimes that has to...

Transfer schools.

Do you happen to have a city or a part of town nearby that has any lesbian bars? Try starting there.

Before I respond to this...how old exactly are you?

To answer the thread title, most guys do NOT act creepy like this. Unfortunately, the few that do give the rest of us a bad name.

So sorry that he's treating you like this. Any updates?

I'm normally not a fan of ultimatums, but IMO in this case it's time for one. Give him a choice: It's you or the girls online.

Though I think this is eventually gonna end in breakup, doing it...

Suggestion: Burn or hide your current journal, open an account on livejournal.com, and IF you must, don't go talking about it! The way you approached her most likely came across as, "Hey, listen to...

There is no such thing as "typical" BDSM. Hell, there's no such thing as typical sexuality. Everyone has their own particular tastes, styles, and likes and dislikes. That goes for your gf and for...

I dunno...some people here seem to have some real hangups with BDSM. Which if they do, hey, don't do it. Neither should the OP if he's not into it.

Nonsense, never feel the need to apologize for the limits of your body or your sex drive. Your bf has some serious issues; he does not respect you, your body, or your feelings. In fact he's...

She desires a style of sexuality that you clearly do not. I think it's time to part ways.

However, contrary to what some people here have said, there is nothing wrong with desiring rough or...

I have to disagree with the thread title. *Some* women don't know what they want, as do some men.

Perhaps she is seeking the security of the familiar? I'm sure the sex is great and all, but I'd...

And we wonder why so many men have a fear of commitment.

I think you're reading way too much into all this. It's. One. Email. Don't worry about small stuff like this or you'll go crazy.

Just continue the conversation and see if it leads anywhere. As...

Ah, true. Hopefully someday, one's sexual orientation won't cause any more of a reaction with anyone than one's eye color.

Yeah. One would think that in the 21st century, most people would have moved beyond such ridiculous beliefs. Apparently not.

BTW, I hope other people here realize how much of a compliment it is to...

Enough of this bullshit. If I want to deal with any more pettiness, I will let you know.

In the meantime, I'm going to engage with more rational people here.

Bro, I hate to tell you this: You're gonna have a hard time in a courtroom explaining that that wasn't rape.