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I don't think that's shallow, I have the same standards and more.

This same situation happened to one of my old friends, turned out they were actually both virgins and lied about it, so they were both making up unnecessary stories. Do you know if she was a virgin?...

Why don't you continue sending her texts every second or third day and see if she initiates on the days you don't text her? They don't have to be good morning or good night texts.

I can't speak for all girls, but there's a lot worse things a guy could tell me than social anxiety or virginity. At least in my opinion, I don't have social anxiety so I don't know enough about it,...

No problem :)

Yeah I definitely don't think you should lie about the virginity thing, but I'd just avoid the conversation. I'm surprised that girls are asking you how old you were when you lost...

Yeah I would definitely NOT tell her! She wouldn't be able to trust you again and the relationship would be ruined. She's naive if she thinks guys don't show their friends sexy pictures girls send...

I think your problem is that you're mentioning your social anxiety and that you're a virgin way too soon. Many girls will write you off in the initial stages of dating based on these facts alone. It...

How is the connection with you outside of the bedroom? I know you said you have lot's of fun, but on a deeper level.

I'm only asking because for a female in a relationship I think the physical...

I don't like rejecting a guy but I don't feel guilty about it and I wouldn't get jealous. I would only feel a bit guilty if we had been on dates and I changed my mind about them and had to reject...

Well I guess when I say sex I'm referring to intercourse. Everyone has their own opinions as to how they classify 'sex'. The end result for the male is an orgasm but as a female, or for me at least,...

Look if I wanted to 'snag' this guy by having sex, I would've done it a long time ago. I wouldn't wait 4 months to try that tactic. I've had him naked in my room twice. So I don't appreciate being...

You're right, it has been a pattern with him, some weeks he's hot and I'm content, and other weeks he's cold and slacks off. So I know if we don't have a conversation soon, I'll probably be in the...

Lol, so it seems I have just been paranoid as he is feeling better now and asked me out for both Thursday and Friday. All this stress over lack of communication! This has taught me a lot about the...

Thank you for the advice, you're right in that I am lacking in confidence and I seek confidence from external sources (like guys) rather than internally. I need to work on it!

UPDATE: He actually...

I honestly don't believe it has been an issue with this guy, besides me being nervous and embarrassed the first time he came over. However, I can see that he might think if things were to become...

I have considered this, but at 31 with his last relationship being a long one, I just don't see how this could be possible. However, his not the most confident guy, like I said earlier I have to take...

Hi, thanks for your reply :)

I would think being 31 he would have considered wanting to settle down, but maybe not with me, as what seems to be clear to everyone here is he's not that serious...

Yeah well I'm not sure if you saw what I edited into my last post. But another consideration is that maybe he has some sexual hang up he doesn't want to tell me about, so is avoiding sex. Or he's in...

Thanks, I don't even know if I'll be seeing him again to have the talk at this rate. No, we haven't discussed exclusivity or sex, every time I start to get comfortable enough to bring it up because...

Yeah I don't think you should be open with her yet. It doesn't sound like she wants anything or she wouldn't have said she's not interested in a relationship. The only thing that might work is to...

1. It depends, I've had close male friends I only had platonic feelings for, and one where we ended up in a relationship. I think for girls it can be either.

2. No, but I know girls that do.
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Omg this is hilarious hahahaha! The guy did sound extremely defensive about it, it was crazy. After he hung up the phone I was like, 'that was intense...' and he agreed.

Well, I don't give him...

Sorry I left that unclear, I would only talk about it face to face. That's why it's taken me so long, because I don't want to discuss it over messaging but I tend to chicken out in person.

You're...

I have met him at his house a few times, been inside twice, the last time was Valentines Day though which was a long time ago. He lives with his parents and grandpa, it's obvious by the house and his...

Hey, I appreciate your response, it is really interesting to hear that he may actually be thinking the same as I am. I realise I come off lazy in my OP, there's just SO much I could say but I don't...