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I really enjoyed reading all this. Somehow, it reminded me of a book, "One Day" by David Nicholls. I might still be a bit naive but I tend to think that, if it's meant to be, it will all work out in...

Why not?! I like texting! :)

Yep good sings definitely - she suggested Saturday or Sunday!

Good luck! :)

He has changed or changed his perspective about engagement/marriage. People change their mind all the time. It doesn't mean you didn't know him very well then.

I am sure those 6 years has a...

Whatever the 'real' reason is, it's pretty obvious that he's got some major issue to deal with. I mean, he started crying in the middle of the street?! Let him be and go find someone who is happy...

Although you are saying that, I think it's more about you not wanting to 'kill' whatever chance you think you may still have with her than anything else.


It's true that life is a one-time...

You have a lot of assumptions about her.

It's best to let all out and see where each of you stands. What's your view and her view on 'relationship and sex'? For all you know, her preferring...

What a simplest mind, that is! Bless them. ha.

So, if you move out to your parents, will your gf be able to afford full rent on her own?

Yeah don't reply.

His 'groping' was rather distasteful to me too, lol.

LOL! That was well funny. What other possible reasons are there? Couldn't believe she had to ask!!!

Forget 'the signs', know what YOU want and ask her if she wants the same thing. If not, move on.

LOL. I beg to differ!

I wouldn't like a random guy whom I met a couple of times buying me gifts unless I intend to see him regularly. It depends on guys - who these guys are to ME.

IMO, if someone has to contact her husband's ex to find out if he was a pathological liar, she knew it anyway and wanted a confirmation. 'WHY', I won't know. I mean, it would be a lot easier for me...

Between friends, it is not unusual that you buy drinks in turns. Do you always let him pay for your drinks even if you are friends?

He could be just being chivalrous but if he's a good friend of...

We all do stupid things after a break up but contacting my ex's ex has never crossed my mind! What's there any need to explain who I am to a complete stranger? That's a bit odd to me and I wouldn't...

Seriously? Fuss over FB profile at 40?

Well, it's good to hear that you are making some effort but you are not going to change over night, if ever. If she looks shocked and has to ask again and...

It's been only 2 months and he's shipping out soon.

I'd take his words at face value, stop investing any more time and emotions and find a guy who I can see as often as I want to!

Tell him this then!

She is right. No Contact is the best. She cares enough about you not letting you suffer more. She may feel uneasy around you dotting for her as well. Don't try to fool yourself into being a friend...

If you enjoy whatever you are getting out of this, do just that without being emotionally attached but it seems that you like him and want more than sex. In that case, stop being available for sex no...

LOL!

I also think that if she wasn't interest in any potential intimacy, she wouldn't put herself in that position. May not be a full on sex she has in mind but she is most probably open to some...

I don't actually see why a relationship is deemed to be taken to the next level with a marriage either if things are good and both parties are happy but it appears that she has a totally different...

But what really can you do? You cannot force her to feel the way you feel about her. Whether you like it or not, she will be with some other guy. Stop tormenting yourself. You will gain nothing from...

I get the same feeling. I also feel that he's got a lot of growing up to do. Guys who depend on their parents grow VERY VERY slow, if ever! He will be keen to do just that, being independent and all...

I enjoyed reading it!

How come your friend gets so awkward? I mean, what's up with her phone and all that? Why did she even bother to go out in the first place? lol

I noticed that some people...