I think you lack insight. You chose to go for these types. Dating much older men, druggies, players, bad boys.. your obviously attracted to them for some reason. Maybe you believe that you can change them. Or maybe you ignore red flags early on. Maybe you trust too easily and rush in too quick without thinking things true first. You need to take some accountability coz if this keeps happening, and there is a pattern then i am sorry but you are also the problem. What about when you realize you cannot trust him? Do you immediately dump him or do you keep giving him chances??
My experience with men has been the opposite to yours. I know plenty of good ones, have been on dates with lots of genuine, honest people, my second bf worshiped the ground i walked on and i could trust him with my life. My current bf is the same and we are together 6years. Ive only had one bad experience at 17 where i was cheated on and i dumped him straight away. Ive dated 2bad ones briefly but again dumped them both as soon as i realized they could not be trusted and neither of them got past a kiss with me..
Not all men are bad. You just have bad taste
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And ill also add if they are cheating, lying, hurting you etc-they do not care, they don't love you or respect you. Its disturbing you believe someone can treat you so bad and still care
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".