This is Jennifers second go at "settling down."
Anyway... don't worry about "settling down" Op, just concentrate on the women that actually want you for their gf and don't be putting yourself in the friend zone with girls that just want your attention but not much more.
You'll be fine if you have good personal boundaries, show your confidence in yourself, and you don't waste time on fluff and fantasy and girls that don't show you interest.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion