Hello everyone, It won't be short but I'm writing here becaue I really need your good advices.
Here it is. Well, i'm 22 yrs old, and im in a relationship with the most beautiful cutest smartest girl I could met, for 2.5 yrs already. (Im a girl).
My beloved girl, decided to fly overseas to work and make some money. We have a huge love to eachother, and we had really tough time before she left,
but we decided to stay together and keep our love as a long distance relationship, while staying loyal to eachother. she's there for almost 7 months.
I actually kinda live at my work, and suddenly I've met someone I didn't expected to meet- we're working at the same place.
I met a beautiful impressive girl, which I'm sure I would date if I didn't was In a relationship. The thing is I get really confused when she's around me,
and I'm of afraid making mistakes. I do not have feelings for her, but I might have a crush on her. It doesn't matter because I really like her company and I really care about her as a friend but shes acting VERY WEIRD lately and I can't understand why.
From the first time we saw eachother, I felt an unusual deep connection between us, And we became close friends. (I have to say It was against all odds because we're working at different environments ). We started texting eachother, in a friendly way.
She knows I have a girlfriend and she really recpects that ( She's very ethical person). The time went by and we started meet eachother outside of work (parties, trips etc)...
But we never talked about having something between us of course. I'm not sure about her feelings toward me, and I get confused trying to over analyse every word she tells me, or every act she does around me. The thing is- I have a girlfriend, which I really love, But im always thinking about the other girl, which making me confused everytime I see her, and I want you to help me understand whats going on, in order to recognize the thoughts in my mind and helping me understand whats the best thing to do due the situation.
This girl is very unpredictable, and very hard to understand. On the one hand I get from her signs that she might be liking me,
On the other hand she's kinda trying to avoid me lately. The thing is, that shes not a person for texting messages. no matter what, when im texting her, usually she'll answer with half sentences.
She actually can send me a message and start a coversation, but then Ill get the feeling like shes doesnt really want to. And it happened A LOT of times. (WTF????) But when she sees me, shes very talkative..
ALSO:
1. Everytime she sees me she has a huge smile on her face
2. She likes to poke and punching me, and make funny mean jokes about me..
3. She can't avoid me when i'm around
4. When I told her someone flirted with me she said "Oh I can understand why"
5. When we were at a party sunddenly she kissed someone in front of me- who's really under her standarts.
6. When she broke up with her gf she told me first
7. Theres always like theres ice wall between us
8. She's always "POPPING UP" when Im a little bit "disappearing"
On the other hand- she stopped texting me.. and I stopped texting her because I started feeling like I was bothering her..
And it freaks me out because I can't understand why. A few days ago she came into my office from nowhere And and said half jokingly " We don't talk to eachother anymore, huh?"... " You don't care about me anymore" " i Have a lot of new things to tell you about " and I've had A lot of things to say but all I could say at this moment was "Its not true! " "you don't text me anymore what do you want me to do? " then I felt bad and texted her " so when we will talk? " and she didnt answer.
since then, she's texting me only if she needs something.
I really love her as a friend.. And I feel like im loosing her.
on the other hand, It'll be better because im in a relationship with my girlfriend and im about to live with her in 2 months.
SERIOUSLY, I dont know what to do.
This girl is freaking me out.
should I check with her whats going on?.. should I stop talking to her?..
What would you do?
thank you for helping
:-)