Calling all Men. I need your advice?

[wonderwoman7]

So my husband is FB messaging another woman. He has been for some time now. He knows I know. In my opinion, I don't think a married man should be privately messaging another woman. He doesn't message her when I'm around, it's only ever when I'm out the room or he is not at home. I have read a fair amount of the messages to & from them, & they're flirtatious. I have asked him to stop, but he refuses. I'm getting fed up with it & it's really upsetting me. She's not a threat to me (in my personal opinion) but that doesn't mean he doesn't think she's attractive or wants more. I just want to know what another man thinks of this?

[Wakeup]

Why do you specifically ask for men's opinions?

Anyway, here is mine: Your husband is having an emotional affair with this woman and the more he gets involved with her, the less emotionally connected to you he will be. The chasm is growing on yours and his emotional connection and the very fact he won't stop what he's doing is proof that he values her too much to just stop responding to her.

Does she know you know he's talking to her?
Does she know he is married?