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    health issues

    My name is grace. Am 28 years. I have a problem about my health issue. I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure. I cannt have my own children normally. But am scared to discuss with my partner. We are getting married in 3month time.
    Am scared to loose him. Am so confuse either to discuss it with him or I keep quiet about it. The issue has been bothering me over years now due to the fact I cannt have my own children.

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    Well sorry, but you're being completely selfish to not tell the man you're going to marry that you can't have his children. Have you discussed each other's wishes about having or not having children? If so what were his expectations from the woman he is choosing to spend the rest of his life with?

    Seriously... you tell him and you let the chips fall where they may. If you love him, you will not hold this information from him for a moment longer.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    All is not lost, there are options to get pregnant by donor eggs. You have no choice but to tell him, and it will be a bit of a challenge, but I'm sure with honest communication, you both can work through it, if he is the man for you.

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