i want to break up with my new boyfriend

[keirax3x3]

I wanted to break up with my new boyfriend?I am 17 years old turning 18 and he is 19 soon. We met on a dating app and decided to hang out,we met last friday just after one day of chatting. He was cute and geeky and smart in person, he will be great as a future husband but not actually my dream kind of guy.He took me to a park late at night,the sight was beautiful! He was an introvert so most of the time, I was throwing him with questions. He say all those lovey dovey first impressions of me and he wanted to kiss me. I protested for quite a long time and finally give in when he ask me to close my eyes(first kiss).. When he kissed me, it was an ok kiss,I dont feel the sparks, it feels more like I was persuaded. He kiss me multiple times and my heart was pounding and I feel so awkward. He ask me will u be my girlfriend? And I just say ''yes'' in an impulse, idk what I was thinking.He seems to be pretty insecure as he deleted my account on the dating app as he saw many messages I received from others. Everything was so fast-paced and it was silly of me to jump in the relationship.We went on the movie date yesterday, he was the type of person that didnt speak very much but likes to cuddle and hold hands, he has an ex that he love and I just feel that he wanted to date me to move on from his gf and fill his empty heart. He say he will never let me go when I reply that I am not ready for relationship. I jumped to a relationship just for the sake of companionship .My parents have toxic relationship, I think I just want a bf to cure my loneliness but i think i am being selfish

[lissa]

Good for you for being so honest with yourself even though this is a new experience for you! So you've decided you dont want him to be your boyfriend - the next step is to end things. The nicest way to do it would be in person but given that you haven't been dating for very long, I dont see anything wrong w just doing it over the phone if that works out better. But the main thing is that you need to rip the bandaid off instead of continuing this and prolonging breaking up with him. Do it now so you dont hurt him more than you have to.

[michelle23]

You need to be strong and just end it. Cut all contact, make it clear its over and avoid him. I dated a guy like this at your age and I could not get rid of him for 6months even though i made it clear i had no feelings for him.. sometimes you just have to be a bitch if he doesn't get the hint. I wasted a long time trying to end it nicely only to be horrible to him in the end.. just do it now

And stay away from guys if you feel you are dating for the wrong reasons or the wrong types. Work on being happy alone first and set your standards far higher than your parents toxic relationship

Good luck