Advice asking out friend, running out of time

[wcm]

Hello,

If you could read this post I did a while back it will save me a lot of explaining.

[url]https://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/91905-newbe-advice.html[/url]

Basically I'm still in a similar scenario, nothing much has changed other than I have less time left at university, and I worry I'll never see her again.

I guess it's become more difficult to speak with her on the basis that I don't see her as much, and myself intiating texts or facebook chats always makes me feel like I'm coming across as needy, so i hold back even when I don't want too.

Anyways, I basically need to do something because it's taking over my life and ruining my work and other friendships. I havent told anyone about this infatuation or what have you. I spend an unnatural amount of time thinking about her.

I kind of want to ask her out but I'm not sure she see's me that way, and I'm worried she'd never speak to me again on a friend level afterwards, and like I said I enjoy her company and wouldn't want that.

So anything, just guidance would be appreciated. I know the obvious is 'ask her out' but if you'll read the last post you'll see why this is difficult.

Hope this aint whiney and stuff.

[basilandthyme]

I read your last post, but I don't see why asking her out is problematic. At least, no more problematic than any other nervous person asking a person out.

Given that you've got many of the same interests, just ask her too see a movie or band that she'd like. Or see if she's up for a protest rally with you (assuming that you are also a leftie)

Nothing is going to happen unless you get the balls to initiate something. Yes, it's possible she will say "no". But isn't that better than you ending Uni without having tried and wondering "what if?" for years to come?

[wcm]

Hi, and cheers for the response. Appreciate you taking the time to read. I don't know why it's more difficult, I guess it's because I really don't want to lose her as a mate. Honestly I've despised most of the people I've met at Uni, and she's the one of the few genuine friends I've made during my time here. I know too that she attracts a lot of interest and stuff and I sometimes don't think I can offer her anything other guys cant ten fold.

I know where off to a gig/concert of sorts next week but I didn't ask her there or anything, just coincidence.