Originally Posted by
Lil-Red-Head
Did you not read it properly? Ive stayed at his alot. Ive met his mum and step dad. Hes told his step dad hes moving in with me. Also I spent christmas day at his, and me his nan and grandad he rarely sees.
Just to also point out, were always together, he is single, and we have the same circle of friends
This is why I am confused
None of this was in your original post.
My advice is to get over your fear and stand up to him. He's being unreasonable and for some unknown reason, you're too scared to question it.
Tell him that you're no longer going to lie (by omission) to your friends about your relationship. Tell him that you're not going to fake separate bedrooms if you move in together. Tell him that if he wants to move in with you, you will only do so if he's honest about the relationship. While I don't know your friends, I suspect that your closest friends would be pretty pissed at you if they found out you'd been lying all this time.
Hon, if you're scared to ask about his sketchy behaviour - and stand up for what's reasonable - you're not ready to move in together.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.