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Thread: Help me, please

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    Help me, please

    Hey I'm 22 and have been with my 20 year old partner for about 18 months,
    Recently I've started having doubts about our relationship, I've started having feelings I don't really understand. Lately I've been feeling like maybe she isn't the person that I want to be with for the rest of my life, and have been doubting our relationship. I love her. I really do, we never fight, she is pretty, smart, funny and we have similar values..
    But, I don't know if I want to with her forever, and if I have doubts now, what does that mean for when we stay togetjer, is this a phase or should I know by now if she is who I'm going to be with, and the fact that I don't know is telling me something ?
    Thank you, sorry for the lengthy post....

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    Firstly, you are 22 years old, you are both so young and have so much life to live. Now after 18 months it is normal to be thinking about whether or not you can see your partner being your life partner, you will have doubts especially at your age as it is a big step and you are only 22, but there is never a time where it just clicks and you say yes I want to be with her for the rest of my life, maybe in the movies this happens but in real life we naturally just fall in love and sometimes we fall out of love.

    At the end of the day 18 months is nothing, throughout a relationship you will always have different feelings and really when it comes down to it, trust your gut feeling because it is always right.

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