I am so confused :(

[rcatty22]

ok guys. I made a mistake.

I had a coworker that asked me dinner after work. I told him i'm broke and couldnt pay and he said that that was fine and he would pay. I told him I didn't really feel comfortable with him paying but he said don't worry about it. Against my better judgement I went to dinner with the guy.

He is quite the charmer, he is a really good conversationalist and we talked and had a great time during dinner. Afterwards he asked if I wanted to come in and smoke a joint with him. I said ok.

While we were smoking in his house playing with his dogs and talking he said lets do a shotgun and I had to pause a second and I said yes anyway. So we do some shotguns and our lips touched.

He then asks if I was seeing anyone and I said I'm kinda seeing this guy I've known for 13 years but I'm waiting for him to make the move. He asked me if I was waiting for his approval and I said no. I could tell things were about to get awkward so i get up and hug him and thank him and for some stupid reason i kiss him on the cheek. Well.... then all of a sudden we're kissing and I start putting my tongue in his mouth... I couldn't help myself, at the time I was so turned on by him and how smooth he was. I texted him saying I had a wonderful time and he texted me back "you're too cute" it made me blush.

Well now it's the morning after and I'm kinda freaking out. Why did I even make out with him? Why?? And just as I'm thinking that he texts "had a great time" I didn't respond at all. Then like 6 hours later he calls me. I freak out and don't answer and he leaves me a voice message. The message was basically saying he regretted kissing me and was apologizing and saying it was irresponsible to come between me and the guy I've been hanging out with...

What should i do???

[lovebroken]

Tell him you feel the same way, re: regretting how far you both took things and you are very relieved you both feel the same way and then add whatever else you see fit to add. ( Like happy to remain friends, maybe get a coffee sometime, etc) If you still want his friendship.

[woody]

Ah, the morning after regrets syndrome. Hey, it happens. Don't beat yourself up too much.
If I were you i'd be more interested in why your on the fence with your crush of 13 years. Why are you waiting?

Perhaps you kissed the other guy because you needed to be kissed. Perhaps his assertiveness was like a breath of fresh air after waiting for so long for something to happen with Mr.13 yr crush.

Hey, if you like mr.crush, ask him out.

[Wakeup]

Why are you turning down something with a guy you're clearly attracted to for some twat who you've been waiting around to "make a move" (some dufus you've known 13 years but has yet to make a move on you?)

What are you afraid of with the guy at work?

P.S. If you do decide to go out with the guy at work don't be so quick to go back to his place next time you meet up. Its quite obvious that you're not in control of yourself after drinking (if you had cocktails with dinner) and smoking joints and you'll end up in bed with him far too soon before you even know what his intentions are as far as a relationship goes.

THINK before you act.

[drleo]

ha ha ,that's confusing but i believe you mind already has an answer for you, and remember everything happens for a reason do what make you happy

[rcatty22]

i went out with my crush tonight it was a fun night but I still thought about my coworker tonight a little bit. don't you guys think the voice mail was a little creepy and desperate??

[smackie9]

Date this co-worker and ditch the other. I don't think you will ever get that kind of excitement and passion from some one that you are waiting for to make a move.......like I always say confidence wins the girl!

[SDelight]

So you are liking another person for quite some time now and waiting that long for him to make a move? Mmmm its really hard I know. You however clearly were attracted to this co-worker. He may have felt bad making out with you knowing that your interest lies in someone else. I think you should give him a chance and see where it goes. You guys may work out in the end. You never know til you give it a shot!

[Wakeup]

Date this co-worker and ditch the other. I don't think you will ever get that kind of excitement and passion from some one that you are waiting for to make a move.......like I always say confidence wins the girl!

Jaaaazus the guy in that video is hawt.

[smackie9]

Jaaaazus the guy in that video is hawt.

Oh hell ya!!!!!!!!

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If you think that guy is hawt check out Tom Mison from Sleepy Hollow!