I don't know what to do now :/

[mibulobo]

I been dating this amazing woman for almost two months. Everything was great and she even spent the night at my place a couple of times. I been separated from my wife for two years and l got divorced a couple of weeks ago and she knew that and had no trouble with it.

A few days ago she asked me for my fb. I had two accounts since one was full of pictures of me my ex-wife and some mutual friends that l didn't wanted to lose. Im from another country so most of the friends l made here were mutual and l didn't wanted to lose that. so l gave her the current account that l use. Anyways she told me that she saw my other fb right before our first date and that l gave her another..so l explained to her that even when l don't use the other well there was a lot of good things and memories l didn't wanted to lose but that l will delete it if that upset her.
But the damage was done she got upset and told me she was a bit disappointed of me..we still went out to a concert a couple of days latter but she was cold and distant.. after the concert l asked her if she wanted me to walk away.. and that l like her but l know l made a huge mistake.
She says she needs time for this not to bother her and that she knows l am a good guy but it did kinda bother her but she still cool with me texting her or asking her out
Should l just let this relationship go? I'm getting mixed signals she was so cold and serious and l assumed that was gonna be the last date but now l really don't know what to do.

I did left some flowers at her place days latter because it was her bday and she replied with a thank you!! and that it was very thoughtful of me.
I do like her a lot but I also don't want to waste my time on a lost cause... she has all the right to be upset at me even if I did not meant wrong it came out as shady... how much time should I give her? or should I just cut contact at all until she contact me?
I also just copied my old pictures to a dvd and deleted my other account to save me troubles with this lady or with future ones.

[Dunedain]

I would suggest that you ask to meet her to find out how things stand. Be totally honest and open as to why you kept the other account. It sounds to me like she is probably concerned that you could still have feelings for your ex wife that you are trying to keep from her and she may need reassuring that you don't. Ask her if she can get past this. Also, she probably feels like you lied to her for not being honest about your old account in the first place. I really do think that you need to talk to her before you make any major decisions.

[dontaskme]

You've only been dating for two months and she's already exhibiting controlling behavior in a very subtle way. Beware of this woman. What you do with the pictures of your ex is your business, not hers. It's not like you've been dating her for a long time.

I wouldn't waste my time if I were you. She seem like a jealous twit. You already explained the reason why you kept your ex's pictures yet she decided to give you the cold treatment anyway instead of communicating her feelings and letting things go.

[Wakeup]

Well, she is probably a tad gun shy if she thinks you're untrustworthy by having two separate accounts. You've explained, you've apologized and you've deleted the offending account. Not only that, but you also sent her flowers on her b/d when prior to that she was being a c***. If she doesn't come around after you doing all that then I say "Fvck her and the horse she rode in on."

If it were me? I'd let her contact me next and I'd get on with my life hopefully meeting other ladies. You just got divorced. Surely you want to enjoy the single life for a bit and exercise your options. Yes? No?

[basilandthyme]

If I was this girl, my alarm bells would have gone off in a big way. I wouldn't care that you had pictures of your ex - but what I would care about is you having two FB pages. I'd see it as quite shady behaviour.

I think I'd be OK with an explanation. However, if a woman has been tricked in the past, she may be much more cautious.