Recently I had an affair with an old girlfriend than I haven't seen in nearly 40 years. Yes we are just in our early 60's. We had a fantastic Facebook affair with a couple of meetups/weekends. It didn't work out because I am not going to leave my wife.
She ended it suddenly and I never had a chance to tell her that the lovemaking with her was not very satisfying because her vagina is very large and I was unable to get enough friction to have a reliable orgasm. I remember she was also "large" 43 years ago when we first made love.
My problem is I care very much about her. She is divorcing her 2nd husband and starting what she calls her "3rd life". I want nothing but the best for her in the future. So do I tell her about this!?! I think she needs to know so she can get something done about it. I wonder if it may impact her future relationships. The girl has kept herself in good shape and really enjoys her lovemaking! She also could afford a procedure that could fix this.
We have pretty much cut off all contact because I was pretty devastated when it ended. She is off on another Facebook "adventure" with another classmate.
Am I CRAZY for worrying about this?
Should I tell her and how?