Hello. This has been my confusion for months now. I am in a 4 year relationship with a good man. We were happy way back college. But things changed. I don't know if I should stay or leave. He's getting a vocational course and I am supporting him financially. My problem is i don't see any characteristics of a husband material in him. He is very dependent. I think its my fault also. I let him depend on me in all things. I didn't realize the effect in the future. Now, i am confused. I don't want to stay and regret. Also, his attitude changed because he hasn't found job for too long. I support him now because he needs me now. I am starting to think if what will be the scenario in the future. Pls help me. I need an advice. Thanks.