My ex and I were together for four months, but we had been friends way before actually going out.
I broke it off because the first two months were great, we got along great. Thing is after a while we slowly stopped talking to each other we would go weeks w/o talking and I grew tired of messaging him every now and then with him seeing and not replying. The only thing I'd see him text would be "I love you," every three maybe four days.. He even forgot about my birthday, ._. I didn't want anything, besides one message from him..?
It took a lot of me to break it off because I do really care about him, and I tried being as nice as possible.. he told me "it's fine I knew I wasn't the one for u.. I'm gonna die single now aha" we got into a fight because he would say he wont date anyone after me, I eventually said sorry for having to end it, and that I hoped we could still be friends.. He said of course.
The moment I got home the cover he had on his prof that had both my and his names with a heart on it was changed, just one name was changed though. It was "Ashley" but now it was changed to "kimy" I got upset and thought he cheated on me..
I confronted him, and he seemed extremely.. Quiet and upset. I asked him if this chick and him were together and he said it was a fake name..
I talked to him today, a month after the break up and I can't get him out of my mind.. I really wanted to forget him, I wanted to move on. I keep trying but I care about him. Even though he was half ignoring me I told him how I feel finally, and I think he felt the same.. But I also explained why I don't think we'd ever work. No matter how much I wanted it to, he said he'd never be with anyone after me. And just before he texted he was going to bed (we stayed up all night talking) he said "well, I'm gonna go kill myself now.. I mean, go to bed." I told him if it really hurt that much then all he had to do would tell me to stay away, and I'd never talk to him again, and I wouldn't mind that .-. He said he'd never tell me that, and that he hope I bother him again..
Why is he doing this to me? Does he want to get back together? Would it be healthy .-. what should I do? Please help..