Hello! I am desperate for some good advice about my situation. So long story short, I have been dating this man well call JB for one year. JB is older, he is 43 I am 29. We have been living together for over 6 months. When we meet, he was legally married, but seperated. He has three kids with said ex wife 14, 11, 9. Ex wife is a crazy crazy person and has caused a lot of drama. Including coming over to our house to fight me (we did fight and I had her arrested). Needless to say, his kids have been on the fence with me, they are sometimes nice sometimes rude. I really want to get married and have a family. I've told him this over and over. He does not want either (divorce went through in October). I'm not looking to get married tomorrow or anything but in the future. I love this man, but he just recently told me he was seriously thinking of getting "snipped" because I keep talking about kids. For the most part he is wonderful, aside from some insecurities I have with him and his ex and a little temper. Should I give up on having kids and being married and stay with him? Or should I go?