Guy lies about love life, says he is married when NOT!!

[samantha11]

I know someone who is acts really odd whenever he is asked about his personal life especially love life, he is reluctant to discuss it.
Or will lie about it.

He is single but will say lies like he is married or won't answer truthfully. He even tells his colleagues to tell girls that he is married when he is NOT.

He will tell about his family, parents, siblings, his home town, his goals, his friends and even that he washes his underwear, but when it comes to love life, he is either reluctant to talk about it or will start lying.

Its not about privacy because if people start acting like him then all engaged or married people wouldn't discuss their marital status and would pretend to be bachelors or maidens.

There are lots of people who do not talk much about their personal life but at least they do say whether they are single, married or in a relationship.

He's a a bachelor but publicly lied to his crazy teenage girl followers that he is married.
Later on he said he does not want to discuss his personal life. But 3 months later, while on a show in Bali, he told the pretty female hosts that he is single.

He shows off a lot in front of females, loves female attention and is flirty towards pretty females. Excluding the pretty ladies who are his colleagues, because he only talks to select few people and stays in his own world.

Why would anyone do this? He is 33 and still unmarried.

[dontaskme]

What's your point?

[rrelf]

This guy seems to be insecure about his status and may feel that he can attract more attention by letting others know he is married. He's craving some sort of attention or may feel that his status of being married will make women desire him more instead of being single. Generally, he could be scared of actually allowing others to know he's single because it may lead commitment which may be his ultimate fear. The personality of a male in this type of situation could lead to the ultimate answer of his actions. Does he portray arrogance amongst women?

[samantha11]

Why would he be insecure? & he posts pictures of himself only, refuses to talk about his love life and there is no news of him dating an woman or being married so doesnt he understand that people will suspect or eventually get to know he lied?

[rrelf]

I'm sure he knows people may have questions considering he never shows any photos of him with his wife. It seems like he's trying to make himself seem unavailable to women thinking more women will want to talk to him because he's taken. Another concept could be that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone around him so he hides behind his false status of being married. You seem very interested in this guy, Do you want to date him?

[Wakeup]

Why do you care what he does? What is YOUR investment in him to the point that you need to know his business and his motives?

[basilandthyme]

It's very simple: he wants to keep his private life private. And he doesn't want female fans thinking that he may be interested in a relationship with them.

If he tells you that he's married, it means he's NOT INTERESTED.

[breathe123]

Why do you keep posting the same thread over & over every couple of weeks, months? Do you suffer from OCD?

[Wakeup]

Maybe she should put it in "Off Topic" and keep posting blather to it just so it stays open?

[smackie9]

Because she is dating him and she's choked at the fact he has np telling a hot host he is single, for he is thinking he might have a chance with her.

[samantha11]

This guy seems to be insecure about his status and may feel that he can attract more attention by letting others know he is married. He's craving some sort of attention or may feel that his status of being married will make women desire him more instead of being single. Generally, he could be scared of actually allowing others to know he's single because it may lead commitment which may be his ultimate fear. The personality of a male in this type of situation could lead to the ultimate answer of his actions. Does he portray arrogance amongst women?

I dont know about arrogance towards women but people do say he is arrogant.

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I'm sure he knows people may have questions considering he never shows any photos of him with his wife. It seems like he's trying to make himself seem unavailable to women thinking more women will want to talk to him because he's taken. Another concept could be that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone around him so he hides behind his false status of being married. You seem very interested in this guy, Do you want to date him?

He doesnt even tell his young female colleagues that he is not interested and hence a bunch of them especially those around 22-24 start going gaga over him.

[Wakeup]

... So? ...