The best way to explain my boyfriends moods, is essentially by calling him bipolar. One moment he is all 'hey baby' and the next he is pissed. I already posted this story last night, but there is a twist in the story. haha. Last night he comes home from work around 9:30 pm and I am in our room working on a essay that is due today, using my wireless keyboard, that he has been using for gaming (he hasn't gone and bought himself one). He asked me if he could use it and I said 'no, sorry I type faster on it and I need to get this paper done," he responds, "I guess I am going to Walmart then," super mad and storms out of the room slamming the door. Today he wakes me up and is super apologetic and 'I am sorry I was mean, I am going to buy my own keyboard today.' I am very appreciative that he is recognizes that he was in the wrong, but I feel like he sees it as, if I acknowledge that I am wrong, then it will be essentially putting the toothpaste back in the tube. Not even 5 min later, he is trying to have sex. I am not in the mood because I am recovering from yesterdays debacle, but at the same time you cannot treat sex like you are asking to go to the store or something. Hello, why don't you be nice and romantic? How yesterday and this morning went, is basically how it usually goes, he is mean over something trivial and then super sweet and apologetic the next day. I usually try and let it go, because it is over such trivial matters. At some point, the apologies become meaningless, apologies are more than just admitting a wrong doing or something mean said, it is a social contract that states that the party will strive not to repeat the offence. When the thing apologized for, has been done a hundred times over and apologized for a hundred times over, it becomes a moot point. He says that he will try and do better, work on not being so mean. He says he reacts like that because he is frustrated. Last night, he came home and wanted to game and blow off some steam, but because he didn't have access to my keyboard and couldn't game, he was pissed and bored, with no other choice but to go to bed. He also goes onto say, every time we discuss why he gets so mean, that he is frustrated with my sleeping habits. I go to bed at 3 am and wake up around 11am, it irritates him that when he is trying to go to bed, I am doing homework. I guess it is too logical, for him to ask me to go do my homework somewhere else because he cannot sleep.