Well there's a guy (and for what it is worth he is a co-worker but we don't have anything to do with each other day to day) I met in our not too far away overseas office 5 years ago and we hit it off and had an a-mazing couple of nights together, great connection, totally comfortable with each other and the sex, was wow!

Unfortunately I hadn't been long out of a bad relationship so I couldn't progress anything further at that time and to be honest I was afraid to with how I felt about him.

Fast forward 5 years and I just had another trip to the over there and whammo hit by a train and flying through the air as soon as we saw each other! I have never felt such an Intense chemistry with anyone (I am 36 and kissed a few frogs in my time!) we also feel totally at ease and comfortable with each other and have the best time .. Far more than just a sexual thing and we literally take each other's breath away when we kiss, he 100% feels the same about me.

BUT we now both have children to ex partners so a relationship will be pretty impossible for another 15years until they are old enough to leave home haha

So can anyone please give me some tips on what it the fastest way I can get rid of these feelings for him and forget about him? Do I completely cut him off?

It's almost been a month, my heart is still racing every time I see his name, butterflies, my temperature goes through the roof when he tells me kissy stuff, I've lost 5kgs and all I want is to see him again, he tells me how he feels and we continue to get to know each other better ... I tried not contacting him for 2 weeks, keeping busy etc but I'm finding it so flipping hard, help Arghh!