I have a crush on a girl from my high-school class from almost 6 months. When i started talking to her she was in a relationship with a guy (a huge jerk) that she loved so mutch... He dumped her, and she suffered a lot because of that. Then we become close friends as I talk to her about that and helped her in that hard situation (amplified by fights in family and other bad stuff). I guess in that time i started to love her a lot. Then i tryed to push the relationship in the next level at kind of a month after her previous break-up and got the classic "friend-zone' answer with the mention that "im a nice guy, but she dont want to hear about love anymore". After that i tryed to let go, follow my friends advices and just move on and not waste anymore time on this girl, but a strange thing happend, she continued to talk with me and give me signs that she like me and dont want me to leave her, and after a while she accept to date me, and i guess i figured out that she like me to... But the problem is that she struggle between her feelings for her ex (that she dont see him as a jerk and still have some feelings for him although she refused when he asked her to be back together, guess a little bit because of me too) and her feelings for me, that she dont want to accept for some reason... Now I just patiently try to be the friens she need and she is getting closer to me every day, but something in my head tell me that is not a good time to ask her again... I shoud wait until she give me a sign or something (she is a very shy girl) but i dont know what to expect or what to do next... Im afraid that if i push the relationship to hard i could mess it up, and on the other hand... damn... i love her so mutch, and i want to hugg her and tell her "i love you" every time i see her and is very hard for me just to stay as her friend -.- Just, bring some light in this situation and teach me what to do next... Sorry for my very bad english, and thanks a lot in advance