So I had this guy in our batch that I've known since I was in 1st grade. Around august or september 2014, we started chatting and he was flirting—not necessarily, just kissy and heart emojis—you get the idea. He stopped a few days after that. Leaving me hanging suddenly. Months later, we chatted again and started saying ilys. He stopped again after a few days. I was left hanging again.
We used to tease a close friend of mine to some guy. The day of our prom, he told my friend he'd dance me if she'd dance the guy. He brought it up. They told me this and I agreed since I was really thrilled. My friend continued to refuse so i decided to tell her that i'd dance him(the guy that i like now) and this guy who likes me. She agreed and they danced. After that I danced with the guy who likes me.
Guy A (the one i like) danced with me. We talked. He asked me if GUY B (the one who likes me) has a chance on me and I told him no. He asked why and i told him i only see guy b as a friend. He then looked at me and asked: how bout me, do i have a chance?
And i was just staring at him. He started laughing after a few moments, saying he was joking and i smiled. Then he started asking again, this time seriously. And i was effing nervous and it just slipped out that "maybe, maybe you have a chance"
We dance another time after that.
Now we're chatting again but he just 'seen'ed me and replies the next night.
I'm getting really frustrated.
I think he still likes his ex, but why lead me on?
Ugh it's whacking my brain.
Advice please? And sorry for the long post. Thank you.
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Oh and the last message he sent me was last night around 9. He then stopped replying but he was online the whole night. And he was too this morning and noon. I checked our convo and saw the seen message. So he seened me. The time was 11 something last night. Now i checked it again and it was an hour ago from now. He's online right now and he didn't bother replying. And he reread the messages again, that's why the seen message changed time.